文∕子衿
2019-3-9
The day before yesterday on the microblogging a little girl who educated the parents was on fire. She said in a very old-fashioned tone: look at you guys cursing, you only wail! You can't use old poems to scold people? I can come up with a few lines of poetry off the top of my head, can't you? I'm not going to be able to do that, but I'm not going to be able to do that!
The little girl is very logical and logical, and the parents are educated to be convinced, speechless. The netizens have commented, or to the little girl praise, or to the parents tips. I also think it's fun to turn this news, and teased a: two oriole song Cui Liu, hit you do not need a reason.
A friend is very talented, left a comment saying: thousands of mountains are always love, do not do homework okay? Then said: life from ancient times who did not die, do not do homework face shovel purple.
The first thing you need to do is to get your hands dirty. This question and answer, quite dramatic, and unique "big with" flavor out. However, laughing, just laugh out a few points of cold.
And we're talking about two sides. As a parent, if my child dares not write homework, I am sure to be angry with the seven orifices of the smoke eight souls out of the world. "The first thing I'd like to say is that I'm not sure if I'm going to be able to do this, but I'm sure I'm going to be able to do it. But as a teacher, I really can't help it if you don't do your homework!
You must say: a teacher can not even students write homework can not be ruled, still called teachers? This is called inaction! The first thing you need to do is to get your hands dirty! The first thing you need to do is to get your hands on a new one, and you'll be able to do that! Well, I know you have 10,000 hats, any one of them is enough for me to suffer! However, if I take out another example, you may understand a little bit of my pain.
Let's look at the following news.
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The news said: February 21, studying in Shenzhen, a middle school 13-year-old boy Xiao Jin, fell to his death near his home. Parents said the classroom teacher ordered to go home to make up for the winter vacation homework before jumping to his death.
The dead are gone, we can not comment on the death of this child, but I can not help but notice the attitude of people on this matter. As soon as the incident occurred, the parents immediately pointed the finger at the teacher: a living life is gone, the teacher, you feel at ease? At this moment, it is naturally understandable that the parents who have lost their son are sad, although it is rather scary once hatred is focused on a certain person. Although the education department immediately came out to state: actively cooperate with the public security organs to investigate, and never protect the shortcomings. But detonated network news headlines, almost always like this: "13-year-old boy was ordered home to make up winter vacation homework jumped to his death".
This is puzzling. Anyone who can read can almost always read this information from this news: a 13-year-old boy jumped off a building; the reason is that he was asked by his teacher to make up his winter vacation homework.
You see the cause and effect, the logic!
Children are the most sensitive and fragile nerves of parents, as long as the child is involved, everyone's heart immediately tightened; as long as the identity is a student, a lot of the first reaction is to find the school! Find a teacher!
The safety of school education is greater than heaven. No school, dare not put the safety of students in the first place; no teacher, eat a bear heart leopard gall, dare to take the student's life joke. Spare a thought, a vivid life still draws a rest. Although the follow-up report said, after the incident, the family cleaned out the suicide note written by Xiao Jin, one of the letters wrote: "Mom and Dad, I know you hate me"; written to the family of the four letters are serial decrypted issued by experts to analyze that the culprit who killed him is "a sense of hopelessness ". In this way, it seems that being asked to go home to make up winter vacation homework is just the last straw that breaks the camel's back.
It is clear that the truth has not yet come out, why the media overwhelming rendering? I think it's still for the traffic, for the clicks. The use of schools and teachers is the easiest way to stimulate the nerves of the public, once a negative event is linked to a school or teacher, the heat is rubbing off, I guess those who write the news can hear the sound of clattering snowflakes and silver falling out of the bag! Mr. Lu Xun said that some people eat human blood buns thinking that they can cure the disease; so it seems that this kind of people to the present and how few? But the makeup is more delicate, more parochial vision, the heart is also more dirty.
Education has long been a pain point for people, the groove. Although we want to do "people's satisfaction with the school", but the reality is that we are on the education from the hardware to the concept, from the management to teachers, from the process to the goal, almost rare to have "satisfied" a word. On the one hand, everyone is calling for high-quality education, but what kind of education is considered high-quality, I guess parents themselves can not say. When there is a lot of dissatisfaction, schools and teachers become the scapegoats. So the teachers are also trembling with fear and trepidation.
Some time ago, a place claimed to be the right to discipline education back to the teacher, this news makes everyone happy. But how does the right to discipline land? How much scale? How to monitor? Collected things still want to come back, estimated hanging. Teachers do not have to talk about the dignity of teachers, test rankings can not be ranked, do something wrong is not to be criticized loudly; now, homework is not to do can be forgiven - the incident occurred in the school of the teacher in question was also stimulated - the problem is that if the teacher even require students to make up the homework are The problem is that if the teacher doesn't even dare to ask the students to make up their homework, then isn't the meaning of the existence of schools and teachers equivalent to that of sanatoriums and waiters?
The first thing you need to do is to get your hands dirty. Comfort yourself by saying: I want to be the one who has a ruler in his hand and a soft light in his eyes, sounds inspirational, doesn't it? However, unilateralism never tastes good ah!
Also met some lovely parents said: my child other subjects are good, is not good language. Teacher you give a suggestion? I suggest reading. Response: children every day homework so late, which have time to read ah? So it is wasted day after day. Someone said: my child's handwriting is too difficult to read, I suggest practicing handwriting. Parents say: Forget it, don't practice. Some people say: My child can't write. Assigning compositions, parents say, there is no need to practice so hard, right? While envying the quality of education in the north, Guangzhou and Shenzhen, while turning a blind eye to other people's efforts - I once saw a first-grade mother in the Beijing Library to buy books for her children, is a small trailer directly dragged a car. On the other hand, how many books do our children read a year? This time always can not help but silently sigh.
Some people say: my child does not listen to anyone, just listen to the teacher, the teacher control a little more strict, do not listen to the beat. The first thing you need to do is to get rid of the problem. This is corporal punishment! The penalty station? This is disguised corporal punishment! Criticize? I'll just smile when it's raining, but when it's storming? The child has seen you through: you only have the three axes of Cheng Bite Jin, what can I do!
The first thing you need to do is to ask for a favor, and then you have to do it.
You ask me?
The answer is: the east side of the sunrise and the west side of the rain, decide for yourself if it's okay!