Why don't young people want to live with their elders?

01, to reduce the burden of parents. If you live with your parents, when you have a child, usually by the end of the month, many families will give the child to the elderly to bring. Originally, the parents are old, and after the children become a family, they should enjoy the blessing. However, in order to reduce your burden, not only do you have to work hard to bring up the child, but you also have to add your own pension, pension, to your child. If parents live by themselves they have a lot of time to live their old age. You can dance with your friends, go out for a trip, this is the life they should live.

02, the old man's method of educating children, not desirable. From my point of view, their own children to bring their own, the older generation, the way of educating children I anyway is not quite acceptable. When the grandparents, are more prone to spoil the child, that raised simply ancestors. There is absolutely nothing wrong with older people loving their children. But for the sake of the child's future education and growth, I feel that it is better to give him certain norms. Parents must always be used to respect, can not not live together is to dislike them. Everything has to be done from a practical point of view, if all the conditions are more suitable, it is better to live separately.

03, easy to cause more family conflicts. Two generations living together, there will certainly be a big generation gap, but can not say who's concept is completely right. So the two generations will have conflicts with each other. For example, some children like to pursue quality life, while parents will think it is too extravagant, some parents always like to eat overnight meals, while children think it is unhealthy. Parents used to go to bed early and get up early, and children like to stay up late, want to sleep on the weekend, parents will say that too lazy, and ultimately, because of the parents of nagging and cause a variety of conflicts.

Finally, some people think that not living with your parents is ungrateful, but I don't think so. We can look back to the past and see how many families with four generations of children and grandchildren lived together. Therefore, living together may not necessarily mean happiness, and not living together does not mean being unfilial. Unless the parents are too old to take care of themselves and need to live together to take care of them, it is better not to live together. As long as the children can find a more "harmonious" way to arrange their parents' old age, as long as they are genuinely thinking of you, then, as parents, there is really no need to ask for the children to live together