Glass in the heart
A salesman was diagnosed with cancer by a doctor after a physical examination. He had only three months to live. In his panic, he calmly thought about how to arrange the rest of his time, and finally made up his mind to walk the last journey of life quietly and calmly, leaving a good reputation. So I'm loyal to my duties in the company, and I don't have disputes with my colleagues and customers like in the past. I feel that my future is numbered, and I am patient and harmonious again and again. At home, I no longer beat and scold my children and my wife, but often take time out to play with my family.
Three months passed quickly, and he became a model employee valued by company leaders, loved by colleagues and welcomed by customers. Not only has he been promoted, but his salary has also increased, and his family has become more harmonious and happy.
Just as he was coping with the last stop of his life, he was informed by the hospital that the original inspection report was wrong, and he was in good health and everything was normal.
He is still him, nothing has changed, just because of the change of attitude, the whole life has changed. So, when you look out the window through the glass, if the glass is green, the outside world is green, if the glass is red, you see the red world, and this glass is in your heart.
Therefore, the quality of this world depends on you.
What color is the glass in your heart? Which one suits you best?
Clever use of magnifying glass and telescope
On one occasion, a publicist cited an example when talking about building good interpersonal relationships. He said that no matter how beautiful a young lady is, if a beautician looks at her beautiful face with a magnifying glass of 500 times, what she sees must be bumpy and bumpy, which makes people disappointed. Similarly, when we look at the castle peak with binoculars, we only see picturesque scenery, and the charming mountain scenery is refreshing. Then he further analyzed: in interpersonal relationships, there is always someone holding a magnifying glass, which makes the other person show his true colors and look useless, making him unable to trust others and make friends. On the contrary, some people always appreciate the perfect side of people with binoculars. It is this informal feature that makes the host and guest happy and invincible. Having said that, he changed the subject and told everyone in the audience that this is not to say that the magnifying glass is useless, but that the focus of the magnifying glass should be aimed at himself, not others. If you can consult others with an open mind and consciously realize your own shortcomings, such a magnifying glass can produce the greatest effect at the same time.
Be strict with yourself and be lenient with others, which is the best explanation for magnifying glasses and telescopes.
When interacting with people, you like to use a magnifying glass or telescope, which will make you more popular?
Free University
Stepping into the society, the feeling of bending over backwards often makes work a chore. If you try to imagine that entering a company is like entering a social university, how good will it feel? Because I don't have to pay any tuition, I can learn a lot, do various experiments to increase my knowledge and potential, and get scholarships (wages) regularly every month. How exciting it is! On the other hand, whether at school or in various cram schools, we have to pay tuition to attend classes if we want to learn something.
Life is a process of continuous learning and growth. Life can be enriched and enriched through work, can't it?
Grasp your present job well and enjoy the fun of "free education", and you will naturally not feel bored and tired.
How to keep your enthusiasm for work and enjoy yourself?
Man's potential is infinite.
A Japanese newspaper once reported an interesting story: a Japanese woman went shopping while her child was asleep. On her way home, she chatted with a man in an alley. At this time, her child woke up to find her mother, so she climbed onto the terrace above and called for help. Unfortunately, the child slipped and fell off the balcony, but speaking of this place, it was very fast. Her mother flew downstairs and caught the child strangely. It is reasonable to say that a three-year-old child weighs about 15 kg and falls from the fifth floor. Under the acceleration of gravity, his weight when he landed was absolutely unbearable, and this person is a woman of nearly 30 years old. This incident caused a sensation in Japan. Later, the publishing house specially invited weightlifters and runners to do a simulation experiment, but they failed to catch it successfully and arrived at the accident site in time.
A weak woman is desperate, and her outdoor skills can far exceed those of trained outdoor workers. Similar incidents have happened in Britain and the United States. One summer, a disabled young mother in the United States always used a wheelchair to walk instead of walking. When her child fell into the swimming pool, she pushed the wheelchair into the swimming pool and rescued the child, and immediately gave artificial respiration to save the child. When the police asked the mother to describe her whole story afterwards, she couldn't answer a word.
In a fire in London, England, a woman was able to rush out of the fire with a color TV in her left hand and a safe in her right hand. Afterwards, she was amazed by everyone and felt incredible herself.
From the above three examples, we can understand the fact that human potential is infinite. Life is not "can", but "good or bad."
What exactly do you want? Let go and go all out, no matter "can't".
I was born a winner.
Back to the process of life composition, in the darkness and chaos, hundreds of millions of sperm struggled upward and competed fiercely, but in the end, only one could lead the group, win the first prize, combine perfectly with the egg and successfully give birth to a new life. Therefore, every life stands out and becomes the final winner after fierce competition and the elimination of hundreds of millions of opponents.
The Bible says: God created man in his own image. In other words, if a person has the image of God, he should feel honored and realize the potential given by God. In fact, everyone is a masterpiece of God and a priceless treasure.
Therefore, it is no exaggeration for us to call ourselves natural winners. Since you have experienced such competitive pressure in the process of life formation and become a winner, you should be comfortable in the realistic social environment. It all depends on whether you have the determination to win. With it, you will stimulate your potential and turn it into action, becoming a winning general with the habit of winning.
You and I are natural winners, and we can always win if you want.
So how do we cultivate the habit of winning?