Not accustomed to how to do, it is very simple, two words, get out of the way! He is not good for your girl where you can not accustomed to, and even his disrespect for you can not accustomed to, but his own habits of hobby, you just shut up, you are not accustomed to his drink, you are not accustomed to him this person.
It is not a problem of drinking itself, it is a problem that you are not satisfied with your son-in-law. It is not true that you love your son-in-law, but if you are not satisfied with your son-in-law when you first get married, you will not be accustomed to it no matter whether he drinks or not! Because you do not like this son-in-law!
The next door neighbor two son-in-law, one she especially like, the other son-in-law she is not accustomed to, not at all like, so do what she felt uncomfortable, not that this son-in-law can not, is to get married when the daughter must be married, she did not like it!
Let nature take its course, can't let the child divorce it, the two are happy just fine! Parents in this era always try to interfere with the child's learning, life, work ...... really do not know what to say! Can not persuade, always feel that everything to intervene is the right thing to do, but do not know the child early annoyed!
Silence is golden, less said for good. Think differently, take the heart than the self heart.
Adult men, a glass of wine at night, is a hobby, is not considered greedy. If you are out of concern for his physical point of view, you can politely point out, advise him to drink less, but the tone should be friendly. Or simply buy him some good white wine and tell him that bad wine will hurt his body. It may be more effective for you to persuade him in a friendly way like this.
If you just for some reason, just simply do not see him drinking, rather than for the sake of his body, then you do not go to see the end, live in your house you can not let him drink, live in your daughter's house, then you go to the end.
No matter who you are, if you want to live in harmony, then you have to be good to people. The so-called what you are not used to seeing, itself is not very friendly statement.
There are still such people in life, see what is not good, smoking, drinking, playing mahjong, anyway, catch up, the nose is not the nose, the face is not the face, the whole self has more decent like. In fact, in the eyes of others, such a person, basically will become a category of people annoyed. Don't be like this.
Back to their own home
Change a son-in-law
As a mother-in-law have to dislike the son-in-law's behavior do not say directly, I think there are three ways to try a little:
First, secretly to the daughter said that the man drinking white wine at night is not good for the body, affecting the quality of life, to see what her reaction. Daughters for their own planning, should find a way to stop the son-in-law's drinking behavior.
Second, let your son-in-law drink some good wine and fry two good dishes, drink some pure grain brewing liquor, do not drink blended liquor, that is easy to alcohol poisoning damage to the body after a lot of trouble. The first thing you need to do is to get your hands on some of the most popular products and services in the world, and then you'll be able to get your hands on some of the best ones.
Third, as long as he drinks you go with him to drink, and get him drunk. If you are not there, let your daughter drink with him and get him drunk. After a few times of drunkenness he will be convinced and will not dare to provoke you.
This is why, the old man and the young people can not live together, your daughter did not say anything, what do you have to look at, and did not let you spend money to buy alcohol, and now work a day of pressure, the evening to relax is nothing, you do not like, go back to their own home.
Close your eyes and don't look!
I don't know if your daughter has the habit of drinking a glass of wine with her husband every night ah, you are still not accustomed to the arrogance and domineering of the boss's wife of the Huizhou feast, useful? You are still not accustomed to see each and every multi-millionaire national football team? Is it useful? You are also accustomed to the square dance mom side song and dance affecting students learning, useful