The same world, the same mom. I'm not sure if there is anyone out there who feels that some moms are just "bad luck" and that their busyness isn't something that comes from the outside, but rather is something that they impose on themselves. My mother-in-law is this kind of person, from morning to evening 6 o'clock to 10 o'clock in the evening, her eyes "all live", always find something to do for themselves, can not be idle. The self willing to do it then just, do and to read how hard they are tired, and to blame others do not want to do, are counting on her in terms of.
It can be said that the "thing to do, tired by the", but also can not please a little good. The first thing you need to do is to get used to the fact that you have to pay for it. When the mother's age went up, the body function in the continuous decline, the time to give way must understand the retreat, cherish themselves, enjoy life. For example, about three or two friends shopping and playing cards, catch up with their favorite TV series, dancing the hottest square dance, how good ah! This way they are physically and mentally happy, the body will be stronger, the family environment will be more relaxed and harmonious.
But if you are busy all day and night, you have to find something to do, earn some money or save some money, to prove their own significance, but the body to the exhaustion, due to small losses. Not only will they suffer, but they will also drag their children down and make them worry. The little money they earn is not even enough to pay for the treatment. According to some mothers "with hard work to show their own significance" of the move, I briefly explained the reasons: Reason 1: young people do eat a lot of many suffering, used to "hard life", but empty to enjoy life will be restless, and even with guilt. The reason for this is the fact that the people who have been in the country for a long time have not been able to enjoy the life of the country.
Reason 2: From childhood to adulthood are insecure, resulting in a sense of low value, the feeling that the only way to get affirmation is to put your life on the line, selfless dedication, so no matter how old she is, she wants to use the actual action to confirm to others to see: their own is a valuable person. Reason three: is really poor, low income, no pension, and no social security, no money on the anxiety mood, an anxiety mood I think more money, and then take care of the children, in other words, more to earn some of their own pension, did not give their children to find trouble.
After explaining the reasons, I found out that I can't change them, only go with them, just need them to be happy. Ultimately, welcome to leave a comment below, *** enjoy your thoughts, leave your "trail"!