Of the two, family and career, most moms are choosing children and family, they are willing to give up their jobs and dreams for the sake of their children and become full-time moms.
60% of full-time moms have "side hustle dreams", which is a big statistic, and I personally think that all the choices are made because of resignation.
Now we're talking about comfort zones, giving up? I don't think so, I think it would be better to expand this comfort zone, to become their own controllable range, blind entrepreneurship your anxiety will be greater, and vice versa entrepreneurship becomes hard.
So, what kind of side hustle rush to dry rush to energy? Simply put, find the right project, look at the style of the team, and what can I do to help. Just like the child to participate in hobby classes, he has to have the opportunity to integrate the gas atmosphere.
A newcomer to the industry for only two months thinks he has mastered most of the industry's knowledge,
and feels that he has entered the comfort zone, which is his biggest misunderstanding of the comfort zone.
The comfort zone refers to the psychological state and habitual behavioral patterns that a person exhibits,
and it is also known as the psychological comfort zone because people feel comfortable in this state or pattern.
When a person has mastered the knowledge and skills in a certain field, is completely at ease with his or her current job,
and is able to solve all kinds of situations without any problems, then that person is in the comfort zone.
To achieve this level of proficiency requires not only deliberate refinement, but also the compounding of time. Two months or two years is definitely not enough.
The novice thinks he is in his comfort zone, the real situation is that he has just touched the door of the industry.
When you are in the comfort circle, you can fully respond to the work at hand, will feel secure; when you are in the learning circle, you will face challenges, but will not feel too difficult, but will enjoy, when faced with out of the range of competence, either borrowing to be their own to put the ability to improve, turning anxiety into motivation, the comfort circle to expand again.
Well, for example, when you know nothing about PPT, documents, forms, etc. to know them well, that is, from the previously unknown circle of comfort to the circle of learning to expand; continue to expand the edge of the circle of comfort, the field of expertise continues to expand, the circle of learning to slowly become a circle of comfort, so that the gradual growth, is the most effective and can be sustained.
You see, in the Wishing Bone, there are civil servants and teachers, judges and lawyers, executives and international students, from all walks of life, men and women, young and old, retired people, and first-grade children ......
They provide a lot of help for the Wishing Bone-
I am a first-grade child!
I am a yoga instructor, tell you the green health mode guided by cold soap;
I am a skin manager, I will tell you the three major elements of skin management.
I am a retiree, I use my pension to invest in their own lives become more valuable, taking pictures of the square dance sisters gathered without delay, but also to know more interesting people;
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A cause you are willing to invest in, and willing to participate in, which will affect your current circle also affects the the circle you choose,
Do you have something you are good at? Think long term, meaning start with your strengths, and ask yourself how long can you last?
If not, start looking for something that interests you.
For example, if you like to read and write articles, you can consider going to the new media industry, such as the circle of friends, public, Zhihu, Planet,, microblogging, etc.
Do you do what you're good at to the best of your ability?
If not, don't think about jumping out of your comfort zone every day, because you haven't circled yet.
Sink your teeth into it, keep attacking the problems you encounter at work, and get down to the nitty-gritty of the industry you're in.
When you receive a tricky task, you are no longer at a loss,
When your professional ability is recognized by more and more people, you have created your own comfort zone.