When being urged to marry, you can respond in a clever way to avoid the embarrassment
When being urged to marry, you can respond in a clever way to avoid the whining and the embarrassment of a direct rejection.
1. Counter-attacks to disrupt the other side
When asked about marriage first care about the other side of the situation, "Auntie, when will the first cousin get married?" "When will the second cousin have a child ah?" "Uncle a few years salary promotion, right, how much has the salary increased?" "How's your square dancing? Have you learned the steps to Little Apple?" The other side either poked at the pain and lost interest in chatting, or immersed in their own personal life and forgot about your existence.
2. Bitter Meat
When it comes to getting married, you have to do the sad thing, like a woman in the street, to tell the story of your last relationship, and it's best to add, "I don't believe in love any more," and "My heart is still hurting. "I'm not ready to start the next relationship" and other lines, the elders see you touching the scene of compassion, will stop the topic, and then mention it again in a period of time.
3. The beauty trick
Spread the love without limits (not applicable to boys). Blinking watery eyes looking at each other's face: "Hate it, I'm still small!" "Do you dislike me? You want to marry me off so soon! I still want to stay with mom and dad for a few more years!"
4. Be Prepared
Reply with confidence, "I'm thinking about it, don't worry." If you want to avoid being nagged by your parents to get married, it's best to put on a confident face and make it look like you've got your back up and everything is going well. But in order to prevent the parents to ask questions in the pursuit of the gang, or to do more other preparations, such as faking a non-existent boyfriend image and information, to make up all the drops.