When you're young, everyone has a dream, looking forward to being able to walk into the marriage hall with your beloved, and then rely on each other to grow old.
In his old age, there is a true companion of the old companion guarded by the side, from youth to gray hair twilight, to honor the death of life, and son said that the hand of his son, and with the oath of the old is a beautiful and happy thing!
However, the dream is just people's hearts to a better life of prayer, life, can really do so couples are few and far between, most of the couples are plain life, some even become a pair of spouses.
At the end of the day, one of the couples will always be the first to go, and if it is a loving couple, then the remaining one will be sad for a long time due to longing; but for the couples who are not very good, but feel the rest of the life is more relaxed.
I am 68 years old, have a son, and have lived with my partner for over 40 years, who passed away 5 years ago. The son helped to take care of the aftermath, and it's sad to say that the old man was drinking alone, and no one cared that he died at home.
My partner and I are a unit of workers, we are both students in secondary school, after graduation, I followed him to a far away from my home enterprises, to be honest, at that time, my parents do not agree with me to leave home to marry. After we got married, in order to support my partner's career, I almost took over all the housework at home.
My partner goes to work every day, comes back from work, and reads books in the hut to specialize in business. I counseled the child in another room to read and study, in order not to affect the old partner reading, the child to do homework I am taking the child to go out to play.
In this way, in a few years, my partner became the leader of the unit, and I am still an ordinary employee of the department. The old partner's socializing more and more, the time to go home is also more and more late, I feel that the relationship between us out of the question.
Once, I was on the shift, a phone call, is a strange man, he let me hurry home to see, said there is an emergency, I returned home in a fog with the key to open the door, found that my old partner is with a woman to do indescribable things.
I was so angry that the woman's a high-heeled shoe thrown downstairs on the roof of the bungalow, the shoe has been staying on the roof for several years, until the bungalow demolition, the few years once I saw the shoe, my heart will be angry.
At that time, I was very angry to my partner proposed a divorce. The old man is not divorced, he said he was confused, I hope I forgive him, and to ensure that the woman and cut off.
I know that he was afraid that the divorce would affect his luck, and I was afraid that I would share the family assets that he had earned over the past ten years.
I also think that after the divorce, I do not want to stay here anymore, but I can not go back to my parents' home, my brother and sister-in-law's family and my parents live together, and there is no place for me to live, there is no other way, I can only comfort myself, the child has not yet become a family, and he is just a moment of happiness, a bit of power, and other people are willing to talk to him. As long as he gives me his salary on time and treats his children well, I'll turn a blind eye to it. But since then I've separated from him and I'm not willing to let him touch me, I think he's dirty.
My son had a child when he started his family, and I was retired, so I went to my son's house to help him with his child.
When he retired at 60, he came down from his official position and had no power, and the woman left him.
The old partner after retirement, is no longer the one who has the power and money, he is just an ordinary retired old man, when he wanted to enjoy the retirement life in the residential area of the unit and other retired old people, the other elderly in the neighborhood at a glance he wanted to join in, the people did not wait for him to come over to the scattered. The old man could not accept the heart of the just retired fall, depressed, called me to let me come back to stay with him, I said the grandson is still small, the son needs my help refused, in fact, the grandson has been in kindergarten, I just do not want to go home to face him.
The son's heart is good, can not bear to see him like this, call him to come over, he came to the son's home in a few days, smacked the son's home is small, what is inconvenient to go back to their own home.
At that time, my son would also advise me, saying: "Mom, you see my father is now guarding an empty home, how poor ah! The first thing you need to do is to get your hands on a new one, and you'll be able to do that.
Back home, he did not have a friend in the neighborhood, he did not have a hobby, depressed mood, he often drink alone, not a few years to go to the hospital for medical examination, the doctor said that he had a severe alcoholic liver so that he quit drinking, but he did not listen to the doctor's words, and still drink, and finally one day drank too much, a person alone died in the house.
He is now this end, to be honest, I think it is the old God open eyes, so that the bad guys get punished.
The old partner has been gone for five years, if say, a little sad are not, that is false. Although the old partner made a sorry me and the family, but on the whole he is still a qualified father, to his son is very good, to his son to buy a house and a car, his salary and later the pension is also on time to me.
Who has not made a mistake, now think about it, if my old partner retired I can come back to treat him gently, or not so coldly, is not he will not be alone often drink and go so early?
Maybe people only remember what they should do when they have lost. Anyway, I'm living a very comfortable life now. I no longer think about the harm he did to me in the past, and his passing is a relief for me because I will never be laughed at again, so what if I am the leader's wife, but I am still alone in my room.
I now have a good body, the morning after dinner, clean up, go to the park with the sisters dancing, evening about the good sisters go out for a walk, or watch TV, every day life is free.
My son always wanted me to live with them, and I said that I had already helped them bring up their children, and I just wanted to live for myself in my old age.
I still have a lot of savings in my hand, and when I can't move myself, I'll go to a nursing home, and then I'll sell this house I'm living in, and when I'm a hundred years old, as much money as I have left, I'll leave it to my son.
There is a man in the neighborhood who is two years older than me who wants to find me a partner to live with, and I rejected him with a bite, and I have been hurt by the man's heart, and will not believe in the man in this life again.
People should treat their partners well from a young age. If they first make a ruthless thing to do, do not in their old age, and then come thirsty to get the old partner's warmth, really then regret it is too late. If my partner had not betrayed our marriage when he was young, I would have been happy with him, and he would not have gone so early.
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