If life is like the first time, what is the significance of the sad autumn wind?

If everything stays in the beauty of the first meeting, there will be no pain of parting. If life is like the first time, what is the sadness of autumn wind? Drawing a fan means: if life can get along as well as meeting for the first time, there will be no sadness and pain of parting and lovesickness now. The main expression means that the result of things will not be as beautiful as people first thought. What will happen if life is like the first time? Autumn wind is sad. The fan comes from Magnolia, Antique, and Dingcambodian Ci, which is an interactive product of the poet Nalan Xingde in Qing Dynasty. This word describes the scene that a woman who was hurt by love and the man who hurt her resolutely broke up, expressing the bitterness that a woman was abandoned by a man.