I have a friend who has been in love with her ex for six and a half years. It can be said that she is really too keen on this relationship and put too much thought into it. She is the kind of person who takes everything seriously and thinks it over before falling in love. Later, she started this relationship when she was a sophomore.
We usually feel that if a relationship makes us unhappy, we will choose to let go, but she is not. After she is with this person, she will get married anyway. Sometimes I don't understand why she is so persistent.
At first, it was sweet for two people to be together, but after the slow enthusiasm period, they will face a dull period. There will be contradictions and quarrels at this time. Before they graduated from college, they often quarreled over trifles. We tried to persuade them, but she didn't want to let go.
I mentioned breaking up with my boyfriend, but she didn't want to let go. Even though she could feel that her boyfriend had really changed her mind, she stayed, crying and clamoring to stay. In the end, it was quite serious. The boys got scared, and then they got together again.
Two people have been in love for six and a half years, and they have been on and off countless times. Every time, she cried to make up for it, but didn't share it. She clearly knows that the boy doesn't love her, why should she make herself so miserable? You didn't say how much she loves that boy, but she thinks she belongs to the kind of person who has made up her mind and then won't let go.
Of course, I didn't want to break up later, perhaps because I paid too much in this relationship, so I couldn't let go, because letting go meant that all my previous efforts were in vain, so despite the pain, she persisted until the boy disappeared without saying hello.