How do couples get along best?

The way husband and wife get along 1. Only when they have the same values, hobbies or similar personalities can they get together and become friends. This is also like birds of a feather flock together. If two people have the same outlook on life, values and worldview, at least the same starting point, and two people have the same language together, then there will be no serious differences in views on things, and the marriage will be happy and lasting. The way for husband and wife to get along is to know how to give each other a step at any time. In the face of difficulties and contradictions, couples will express thousands of emotions, such as shyness, anger, joy, unreasonable troubles, deliberate actions and so on. And every mood is different. The expression represents the attitudes and views of both husband and wife on this issue. The attitude and views of husband and wife when they are in conflict determine their ways and methods to solve problems, but no matter how angry you are with each other, you should also know how to give each other a step at any time, so as to minimize the consequences and problems. In the final analysis, the cause of the contradiction is that husband and wife have different views on each other. You just want to express the advantages of your point of view, and you don't want to deliberately create and worsen contradictions, do you? How to get along with husband and wife 3. You can't ask each other according to their own living habits. After all, they are two different individuals. After all, they come from two different families. Living habits are different. Maybe you can't see it before marriage, because in the subconscious love stage, men and women will tend to be similar in all aspects, but after marriage, there will inevitably be conflicts in living habits, and some inherent bad habits of both parties will gradually be exposed, such as throwing dirty clothes and socks and squeezing toothpaste. Both husband and wife should tolerate and accommodate these bad habits, which can be gently pointed out, but don't blame them blindly, especially don't deny each other as a matter of personality or taste. Both husband and wife should allow each other to be different and don't have to remind each other to do it according to their own model, so don't hurt each other's feelings because of these unimportant things. The way couples get along with each other is to grow at the same speed and direction-by sharing similar ideas and participating in * * * activities. When your growth is based on happy memories, your relationship will be closer. How to get along with husband and wife 5. Having a basic material economy does not mean that two people are suitable for being husband and wife. You know, after the romantic love life, there will still be real life such as daily necessities. Without a certain material and economic foundation, it is difficult to maintain the lives of two people. Therefore, preparing for marriage should be considered from both emotional and material aspects. The relationship between husband and wife should be relaxed, so that husband and wife can be harmonious and safe. In the process of getting along with husband and wife, mediocrity likes to do addition, while elites know how to run their lives and like to do subtraction. This is the difference between people. How do couples get along best? 1. Exchange economic issues with each other. Tell each other about your financial problems with your lover. If your family does business, talk to each other about profits, losses, expenses and so on. Your economic center of gravity should be put together, which will help strengthen your husband and wife relationship based on mutual trust and sharing weal and woe. 2, not filial to parents, unreasonable, mainly refers to the other party is not filial to parents, so that they are embarrassed. For example, the wife is not filial to her in-laws, which leads to family conflicts. For example, the husband is not filial to his parents-in-law, so that his wife can't lift her head in front of relatives. This is also the most feared thing for couples. As the saying goes, filial piety comes first, and one party is unfilial, which often makes the other party embarrassed or doesn't know what to do. It is even more unacceptable if you are just unfilial, unfilial and unreasonable, and always make trouble. This is also a behavior that couples are most afraid of when they get along. 3. Care about the most important work. Don't forget to make a phone call or send a text message to care about each other. No matter how busy the work is, don't forget to take time to send a text message to greet and care about each other. Although this is only a small move, it can make your other half sweet all day. The love and care in your heart need to be known to each other. While you are busy with your work, you still miss TA. How can this not make TA feel sweet and moved by falling in love again? How do couples get along best? 2 How can couples get along to be happy? Don't fight the cold war. The cold war between husband and wife is a challenge between two people. No one is convinced, and no one is convinced. However, in this case, I advise you not to do such a thing. First, it is easy to expand the emotional breakdown between the two sides. The solution is to take a step back and talk to the wives, which can better warm up the cold war (hehe, warming up is not to aggravate the atmosphere of fighting, but the emotional harmony between the two). Don't argue for fairness. It is because of love that two people entered the marriage hall. There is no right or wrong in love. Don't quarrel for fairness. Two people live together, understand each other and take care of each other. When arguing, we can think more: Is this matter worth arguing about? Is that why you ruined our relationship? 90% quarrels should be avoided. If quarreling is inevitable, shorten the time and get to the point. Remember that you only quarrel about what you quarrel about, and don't involve other aspects. Encourage and praise each other after marriage, many couples quickly shed their mystery, shyness and accommodation, and rarely give encouragement and praise to each other. There is reason to think that this is living at home. However, a truly happy marriage needs mutual respect, encouragement and praise. If you are satisfied with the other person's handling of something, don't be stingy with praise, let the other person feel the degree of happiness and smile with relief at all the efforts. Even if you don't do well, as long as you try your best, you must not be stingy with your encouragement. Only in this way can the other party make progress next time. Don't doubt. Don't think you know everything about your lover's thoughts and feelings. In fact, nine times out of ten, you will make mistakes. In the marriage crisis, the suspicion of catching shadows often happens, which makes both parties angry, difficult to communicate, and finally the relationship breaks down. You can take a piece of paper and intuitively complete the sentence "I guess my lover will think I'm right for me". Then, verify the correctness of the guess with your lover. As a result, you will find that many guesses are wrong. When in doubt, the best way is to ask him directly. * * * When a husband and wife get along, there are bound to be various problems, such as internal problems of the husband and wife and external problems of the family, which need to be communicated and discussed with each other. It is not that you can handle it well or everything, which will lead to unhappiness for both sides.