At the age of 57, women have basically survived their busy daily work and enjoyed a leisurely life after retirement, but at that age, they will inevitably lose a lot of things. The lost youth is gone forever, and the lost relatives are gone forever. But since I am alive, even if there is only one person in the next day, I must go on strongly.
Ms. Tang, 57, lives alone now. Two years ago, Ms. Tang's husband died in an accident while working in a factory. She is widowed and immersed in negative emotions all day. After a period of adjustment, Ms. Tang regained her spirit and lived a more exciting life.
I am 57 years old. During the period when my husband just died, I was depressed every day and felt that my life had lost its meaning. But by adjusting myself, I have basically come out now and live a good life alone.
When my husband was here, we loved each other very much. It is impossible to let go of the past completely. Every night, when I stay alone in a cold room, I will feel a sense of loneliness and occasionally cry silently. Everyone has feelings. How can I say that I can let go?
My relatives and friends around me also told me that I want to remarry for my old age. I have also introduced many men to me, but I don't really want to remarry. Both husband and wife are thieves on the way. I understand that they are so old. Might as well find someone to live alone.
Actually, I can live alone now, and I have a pension every month. I don't need a man to raise me at all. Even if something goes wrong, there are children, relatives and friends around me, and they can't help me.
Many people think that a person's life is very bitter and lonely. In fact, only by mastering good methods can a person live more comfortably and wonderfully.
Now that I'm retired, I don't have to live a nine-to-five life every day. I eat well and sleep well every day. I no longer worry about things at work. I do what I like on weekdays. If I really feel lonely, I can keep some cats and dogs. I am bored and live a good life of reading and drinking tea.
I have a best friend who got divorced last year because she didn't agree with her husband. Although she has no pension, she owns a shop and lives well. Before, she also clamored for remarriage, but under my influence, she quickly adapted to a person's life. We usually get together, go shopping and travel together.
Every morning, I will go for a walk in the park and learn Tai Chi with my peers. After dinner, I will go for a walk in the square next to the community and slowly learn to dance square dance with others. I have more and more hobbies and made many like-minded friends.
Through more people you like to know, you will find that many people have the same experience as you. They will talk to each other, comfort each other, exchange the fun in life, and suddenly feel much better.
I don't feel very old in my fifties, but I think this is the beginning of my life. I still have a lot of things to do and places to go. I will live a good life and make my life more exciting in the future.
In fact, a person's life will not be very bad. As long as he has more hobbies, more contact with people and more friends, those sad things will always be buried and life will become more and more exciting.
There is a saying that when God closes a door for you, he will open a window for you. Therefore, when life is desperate, there is always a way to find a way out. There will always be gains and losses in one's life. When you lose it, you will get something new to make up for it. People still have to look at their mentality when they live in the world. As long as they keep a positive and optimistic attitude, life will not treat you badly.