I've been writing articles one after another for over twenty years.
It used to be handwritten notebooks, not exactly formal articles, and a large part of it was just random feelings, or important events.
When I went to the teacher's college, there was a radio station in the school, and I was a member of the class publicity committee, so I was able to submit articles on behalf of the class, and then I had the opportunity to write an article. Later, I submitted a manuscript to a young people's newspaper in Hebei, and then I was also a member of the newspaper. I was also given a so-called membership certificate, I thought I was formalized, and I began to write and draw constantly.
And then graduated, when I went to work, I was still in the notebook to write down some diary and so on, sometimes to some of the reading of the newspaper cast. I'm not sure if I've ever seen this before, but I'm sure I've seen it before, and I'm sure I've never seen it before. However, when I spoke on behalf of the outstanding teachers in a summary meeting organized by the school, I mentioned that I had written an article.
Because at that time I had a thick diary lost, which had many records of my year. Life and work insights, their own family trivia, their own joys and sorrows. The loss of this book so that I was very messy inside, I always thought it was a student in the school took a look and forgot to return, because my notebook is placed in the back of the classroom on the desk.
So I started a missing person's notice at the meeting. Since then the teachers realized that I have a hobby of writing. They also admired my patience in writing.
Been insisting for many years, the notebook are a dozen, there are more than 100,000 words. Then later I used WeChat, QQ and other software to write articles, introduced by a friend, sometimes submitted to the WeChat public number. Unexpectedly from then on said goodbye to the notebook.
At first, my articles sent to the circle of friends, always get friends of the point of encouragement, some hit the appreciation. I am also confident, always very concerned about what others say about me, but also very hope to let others give me a generous appreciation fee. Every time the public number back to me appreciation fee, I am very happy.
I remember the first time, my appreciation fee are up to more than four hundred dollars. I thought, writing articles can also be the whole small money, hehehe! I feel very proud of myself. Later, the appreciation fee is less and less, I was not comfortable. The first thing you need to do is to get your hands dirty.
My son's words hit me: "Mom, you originally wrote an article on the microblogging is quite good, after writing a release, who love to look at, good article natural attention rate will be high, do not care about the public number of the appreciation of the fee and the number of readers, and do not ask friends to forward it out for you, to give you a like, leave a message, a reward. After a long time friends will feel that you care too much about your article! After all, some of your friends just don't like literature, much less to read the articles of your incestuous characters. Just go with the flow."
My son's words reminded me that this is exactly what happens. You let people give you a reward, that is in the pocket of other people to your own pocket, interesting? Don't be too intentional about getting people to comment on your writing. You let people retweet and leave comments, which is not to kidnap people's time and will?
The first thing you need to do is to get your hands dirty!
A thoughtful friend also said: "Your article is well-written, we are reading, but sometimes time is tight, busy no time to read. So did not have time to forward, praise and reward. But you do not lack this small money, do not care about these, want to write just write."
I said, "Don't appreciate, don't need to deliberately forward, I am writing for fun! Don't even worry about that."
In fact, what my friend said poked me in the heart, yes, do not let others for your words to support the face. The good article will naturally be read, why force people to read your article, retweet your article. Why force people to read it and forward it to you?
The friend also said, he has a friend also love to write articles, every write an article to send out the group, pleading with others to forward the message, do not love to write the friend is very disgusted, in the following complementary sentence: "This is useful?"
Begging people to support your face is indeed offensive.
I have a very flat mindset and just go with the flow of things. The first thing I'd like to say is that I don't know what to say, but I'd like to say that I don't know what to say, and I'd like to say that I don't know what to say, and I don't know what to say. I still have friends who genuinely like and encourage me, but I don't seem to be surprised or proud of their praise. I don't have the interest in caring about this anymore, even after writing more articles.
Then, I have my own public number, "The same time as the years" and the headline number, a little number, at any time you can publish your own articles.
This is the first time I've seen a public number, I didn't tell anyone in the office, and I didn't advertise in my circle of friends, and for a long time no one noticed who ran this public number, and they only saw my articles in the circle of friends.
I heard a hobby writing friend said, she wrote articles around the friends are disdainful, and even the closest friends said sneering, negative words, said she wanted to be a writer want to be famous, I do not know whether it is sincere praise her, or jealous of her. She is very bitter, writing articles and playing mahjong, square dancing the same ah! All are hobbies, why can not let me do as I please?
I myself is a do not want to do anything to publicize the person, I put what all look very plain. I'm not sure if I'm going to be able to do this, but I'm going to be able to do it, and I'm going to be able to do it, and I'm going to be able to do it, and I'm going to be able to do it. Until a few months later, a lot of foreign literature enthusiasts to my platform to submit manuscripts, in all directions, the provinces are also many. My friends realized that I was busy with this, and when they asked, I told them in passing, and they praised me for my real efforts, but they were also praising me for my endurance in writing articles, and I think most of them were from the bottom of their hearts.
I have a rule about posting articles: I usually don't post them to work groups, classmates' groups, or family groups. I only send to literary groups, writing groups.
Later, I realized that the people who really liked and commented on my articles were not the people closest to you, but those who love literature, even if they are in the same office, they won't give you a like, and they won't forward your articles to give you a message unless your articles are superb and in line with the trend of the moment. But I feel that this is true, they want to pay attention to their own will pay attention to, do not deliberately ask people to pay attention to.
Now slowly the number of platform attention in the increase, most of my time is to publish the newcomer's article, to the hobby of writing articles to provide a platform to help push their articles, so that they also have self-confidence. My own articles are seldom published on the public **** number, about appreciation is not forced. Not deliberate, not even set this interface.
I am now less and less deliberate to let my friends read my articles. But I still love to write articles, and my articles have to be stored somewhere, or let some strangers see them. I always think that strange friends read their articles, the vision is calm, fair, and the comments are sincere. Unlike the articles on the public number, the personal color is too serious, and most of the commenters are friends, or specifically looking for people to comment on their own articles. I always feel that it is not sincere enough, a little false.
But the really good articles will attract strangers' likes, and the comments are also very deep and to the point. The first thing you need to do is to get a good comment from a stranger, and the comment is very insightful!
Then I found a couple of software programs to store my articles, and applied for a self-media number to post articles, mostly my personal articles. Here, I can not only write freely, but also see the articles of many friends, and they do not need to appreciate, mostly strangers. None of us deliberately touting anyone, the message are very sincere and natural, from the heart.
In some of the self-media number I sent to the article, are not familiar with the people, there is no intention to flatter the touting said, are fair and objective comments. Or my old attitude: who love to see not to see! Anyway, I wrote the article purpose is purely a hobby, not for the sake of listening to others compliments to make a name for themselves, I am talking with the text, with their own words. But feel good, it is appropriate to send a circle of friends, anyway, do not deliberately let people come to see you write the article, like you.
As long as it is their own heartfelt words voice, touched my own can. I'm here to collect memories, collect moving.
As a writer said: writing does not need to deliberately simmer, that is my work outside of the hobby, this software is like a game world, I act as a novice player, you can hang up and not play, you can also practice all night level.
But after quitting the game, I still have my own work and life.
Peach blossom, alone to enjoy!