A video on the Internet made a big difference. In a small square in Chengdu, Sichuan province, many nearby residents in this activity to play. As you can see in the video, most of the square was occupied by square dancers. That's when three five- and six-year-olds playing on skateboards skated through the crowd, laughing and joking.
An unexpected scene occurred, a half-white-haired woman with her arms folded slowly approached the boy in the lead, and when the boy skated past her, she stretched out her left foot and tripped the boy as if no one else was there. The boy was not expecting it and landed on his face, falling heavily to the ground and not getting up for half a day. The girl, who was skateboarding behind the boy, was stunned by the scene, and looked at the grandmother, who had done something wrong, and her friend, who had fallen to the ground, at a loss for words.
This is another dispute about the public **** site of the competition caused by the dispute, when the two sides of the overlapping needs, and can not be coordinated to compromise, conflict naturally arise, however, square dance grandmothers of the site of the dispute, has occurred many times across the country.
Before that, on the basketball court in a park in Luoyang, Henan Province, a group of grandparents danced and tried to drive away the young people who came to play ball. The two sides could not stop arguing, and the old people relied on the crowd to beat up the young people, until the police came to suppress the storm.
Nowadays, with the improvement of our living standard, the material civilization has been unable to meet our needs, spiritual civilization has become a new pursuit to bring us a higher level of pleasure, and the old man is keen to jump square dance which is the embodiment of our country to promote the construction of spiritual civilization. Square dancing is also a very healthy way of entertainment, the old people hard half of their lives, now can have their own hobbies to enjoy the family, this is what we as the younger generation happy to see things.
If only because of the shortage of public **** site, as a young people to give way to a little is not understandable. However, in recent years, these moncler jackets for square dancing by any means necessary, and repeatedly made disturbing social security behavior. At the same time, some of the old people are not only difficult to communicate, but also rely on the old to bully others, which makes the venue of the conflict again escalated.
The society is always habitually law does not blame the old, those who disregard the public order and morals of the elderly, directly to the age of the "moral" kidnapping capital. I'd like to ask: How can you bear to see an innocent child tripping over a dance floor in order to compete for this half of the floor? If it is your grandchildren who are being maligned and your children are being mobbed and beaten, how will you react?
At the same time, this also reveals a serious problem, when the interests of the two hairs conflict, the way we deal with it becomes the most critical factor. The old man used his foot to maliciously trip up a passing child, and relied on the crowd to verbally abuse and even beat up a young man who wanted to play ball. Their aggressive and even vicious ways of dealing with the situation often compounded the conflict.
These old people have been given more authority by society, both in terms of age and experience, but at this moment, they have turned into secretive and hurtful villains and unreasonable scoundrels. They claim to want everyone to respect the elderly, but they don't realize that it is their various evil deeds that make us lose the respect and love that we should have for them.
This kind of conflict is very difficult to solve completely. The old people think that the children's play affects their square dance, and the children have a lively and naughty nature, and is in the age of physical development, they also need space to exercise to grow. In the final analysis, all of these contradictions lie in the lack of space, the existing activity space can not meet the needs of all people.
In recent years, as urbanization continues to expand, the scarcity of land in the city has led to a scarcity of space for activities, and it has become inevitable that there will be more people and less resources. Or rather, in the short term we can not change this status quo. But for the public **** site planning and management we can do more detailed some, in part of the quality of citizens as well as the public **** consciousness, is not enough to support the standardized use of public **** site, site use zoning management has become very necessary.
Young people should respect the elderly, and the elderly should also have the demeanor of the elders. But what we respect is the behavior and experience of the elders, not their age. After all, no matter how old they are, as long as the behavior is wrong, we should not just respect the retreat, but stand up to their behavior to be corrected.