From this sentence, it seems that there is something wrong with what the husband said, but there should be other words in front of this sentence, according to the logic of normal people, this sentence should be like this: "Wife, my mom broke her leg, can't you take care of her?". However, "you can't" is used, which means that the daughter-in-law is more resistant to taking care of her mother-in-law, and has even said her thoughts on some public occasions. Let's not consider the question of refusal first, but the question of obligation first.
By definition, as a mother-in-law's daughter-in-law, one should have helped each other, although the mother-in-law-daughter-in-law relationship may be bad, and usually often quarrel, but in the face of right and wrong, mother-in-law or daughter-in-law, should be regardless of the past, should help each other. Some people may have a problem with what I am saying, saying that my mother-in-law is usually not nice to me, and she broke her leg, so why should I take care of her? This is correct, but have you ever thought of a more realistic question? Whose daughter-in-law are you? Do you have an obligation to support your mother-in-law? Take the case of your mother-in-law broke her leg, your husband is busy earning money, if you do not have time, but if you have time, why do not you take care of your mother-in-law, and she broke her leg, your husband does not have time, but you do not want to go, you are not making it difficult for your husband? And now the Civil Code has been introduced, although the daughter-in-law does not have the obligation to support the mother-in-law, but has the obligation to assist in the support, if your husband is the only child, you do not help to take care of, once the mother-in-law fell aftereffects, the drag is not still your family? If your mother-in-law's family has some inheritance, it will belong to your family, too.
So why don't you help take care of your mother-in-law? Respect for the elderly is a traditional Chinese virtue, even on the side of the road to see a strange old man fell, we will go to help, but how to change into their own mother-in-law, than the stranger closer than a layer, how can not take the initiative? Often times, we give the worst of ourselves to those closest to us. This is the mother-in-law broke her leg, they find all kinds of reasons and excuses to refuse to take care of it, but if they are replaced by their own mother? Does one go and take care of it then? And everything is mutual, you do not sympathize with your husband's difficulties now, do not go to take care of your mother-in-law, in case something similar happens to your own mother, you want your husband to pay or contribute, I'm afraid it will be very difficult. Even if you are not a good wife and mother, at least learn to think differently ah, the heart is meat long, even if the mother-in-law has a million wrong, usually do not interact with nothing, but broke his leg is not a small matter. The first thing you need to do is to get your hands on some of the most popular products and services in the world, and you'll be able to do that on your own.
If it were me, I as a daughter-in-law, my mother-in-law broke her leg, I was there early, even if my mother-in-law does not treat me, I will do my part, one is to rest their hearts, one is not to let their husbands difficult to do, mother-in-law is not reasonable, mother-in-law difficult for me, that is her thing, I am married to her son, not with her, she broke her leg, I served her, take care of her, is the duty and duty of the daughter-in-law, and that's all. The first thing I want to do is to make sure that you have a good understanding of what you are doing and how you are doing it.