Sister Zhang in our community is very enthusiastic and has a fiery heart. However, her husband died of illness several years ago, leaving her to live alone. A few years ago, she helped her son take care of his grandson. Now that his grandson is in primary school, he doesn't need to wait on her. She returned to her hometown and lived a leisurely life.
Although she is 60 years old, she is in good health and well maintained. Judging from her appearance, she is only in her fifties. Many men want to know her through others and make friends with her.
She thinks she really should find a wife and someone to talk and chat with her. She is not so lonely, so lonely. She chose Mr. Wu, who is over 60 years old, from three men and agreed to contact him. They started talking with friends.
Lao Wu is four years older than her. He has a son and a daughter. He's already married and married. He lives in an old house, has a pension, and the children will make money and have no burden.
She felt very comfortable and fell in love with Lao Wu. Sometimes she goes to the park, and sometimes she goes to Lao Wu's house. He cooked a good dish, and his cooking was very good. He didn't smoke or drink, and he had no other bad hobbies.
All these make Jason very satisfied. After falling in love for a long time, she decided to live together. After living together, she found that they could not talk together.
Different living habits, different hobbies. Sister Zhang loves to move. She goes out for a walk and exercises every day, and sometimes she dances square dance with her sisters.
Lao Wu won't let her go out, saying that other men seduce her and forbid her to joke with other men. This made Jason very disgusted. She thinks both of them are so strict before they get married. If they get married, they will be his private property and they will have no freedom. She can't accept a man with such a strong desire for control.
Although he has so many advantages, but this alone, she found it difficult for two people to get along and asked him to break up.
Sure enough, after breaking up, Lao Wu cursed her, saying that she had cheated him and wanted to settle accounts with her and completely tear off her disguise. It was all fake before, but later, with the mediation of her sisters, she got rid of him completely.
Some men have a strong desire for control all their lives and always want to step on others' feet and make others obey him. He has the final say, a leopard cannot change his spots.
Jason has his own retirement salary and doesn't need to rely on this man. Of course, she hates being controlled. Now she is very calm. She can find it if she can, and it's no big deal if she can't find it.
Aunt Tian, 62 years old
Although his wife died, she helped her son get married and raise his grandson. Now she is relaxed and lives alone in the house.
Although she was introduced to find a wife one after another, she always refused. She thinks it's too much trouble to find a wife, and she has to adapt to each other in all aspects and get used to it.
But there was one person who pursued her persistently for many years. That man, also his wife, died seven or eight years ago.
She kept resisting and refusing. She can't forget her husband, and only regards him as an ordinary friend. Maybe he is too sincere and persistent. Aunt Tian later promised to associate with him, so they could look around first.
After getting along for a period of time, I think Lao Xu still has many advantages. He can help Aunt Tian do housework and respect her. He won't force her to do what she doesn't want to do, and he usually follows her and gets along well.
Aunt Tian agreed to live with him, and the living expenses cost him a lot. However, after getting along for three months, his son's family went home every Sunday. Aunt Tian warmly entertained them, cooked them a table of good dishes, and sent the inexhaustible things back to pack.
However, the number of their visits is increasing, and Aunt Chen's living expenses are simply not enough. In addition, she was very tired, but Lao Xu turned a blind eye, didn't take out a penny more, and even refused to help.
Their family sat together talking and laughing, and she felt that she was completely regarded as an outsider, that is, a free nanny served them, and there was nothing to say with them, so it was difficult to integrate into their home.
Once, she was too tired to move, but Lao Xu was not satisfied. She said she was faking it on purpose, not getting sick early or getting sick late. When her son came back, she was ill. What do the children think?
The grievances and anger in my heart cannot be resolved. This kind of man is really too much and selfish. If I had known this, I would have lived by myself. Why bother?
On the same day, she went back. She has had enough. She seemed to see the eyes of her family looking down at her, with ridicule and ridicule. She doesn't believe that she can't live without this man.