Home is the only place where one can get peace and quiet in this flurry world, no house what to talk about home, talking about marriage, can not escape the topic of the house, the house does not only represent the material conditions, but also the foundation of the future when the two people live their lives.
For those who live a happy and harmonious life, the belonging of the house is not so important, as long as it is in the hands of their own family, they will be able to put down their hearts, but this family, does not include the mother-in-law.
Our own hard-earned money to save out of the house, how the mother-in-law can shamelessly directly move in? Even stare at their own another set of it? This kind of eager behavior, no matter what kind of daughter-in-law, will be far away from her.
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Lili in the marriage before, there has been a set of house, is the parents to help pay the down payment, because of their own feelings have not been any upturn, the parents are very anxious, for fear of their own daughters, the future sufferings of the aggrieved, they rushed to buy a set of house.
This way, even if you don't get married, after work at night, there is a place to go back to, in this world, there is a small place that belongs to her alone.
Later Lili and Yiqiang together, in the discussion of the wedding room, Lili put their own set of this house out, so that Yiqiang do not have to buy, rather than save the money, and slowly save up a set of money for a large house, and now then no longer break the bank.
Yi Qiang was also worried about buying a house in the will spend all their savings, the results of Lili's proposal, directly to their own savings, the two people married, live in this small house, the days of taste.
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But the mother-in-law has been clamoring to come to the city to live, Lili is not willing to let her mother-in-law over, this is their own house, how can you let other people say come to it.
But after Lili got pregnant, even though she didn't want her mother-in-law to come, she stayed in the house in the name of taking care of her. Lili didn't really need much care;
So her mother-in-law was happy to be free every day, and when the hygiene of the house was too much to look at, she would only step in to help clean up, but in general, Lili wouldn't let her own home, become so messy.
Later, Lili produced, mother-in-law often go out to square dance, but also do not take the child, but also do not even mention their own back to the matter, Lili natural is also a belly fire.
Lily felt that this type of house is now originally small, now crowded with four people, Lili feel particularly affected by their own, so they and Yi Qiang discussed the purchase of another house.
03
This news somehow reached her mother-in-law's ears, who asked Lili one day, "Daughter-in-law, I heard you bought another house, where is it?"
As soon as Lili heard her mother-in-law ask about her new house, she felt bad in her heart, how did her mother-in-law know about it, and now she is asking so clearly, whether she has any other ideas.
So she said, "Why are you asking so much, do you want to move in again? I tell you, no way! You can live here if you want to, I won't charge you rent, as for the new house, don't even think about it, that's what I saved up for with great difficulty, I can't let you get involved in it again."
Mother-in-law did not expect that her daughter-in-law rejected herself so completely, making herself especially shameless, "Ch, you think I care to go to that new house there ah? I just casually asked, look at you scared, I see you just have a small heart, think others will rob you."
No matter what her mother-in-law said, Lili did not take it to heart, since she already knew what kind of person her mother-in-law was, she should not engage in meaningless arguments with her, and live separately in the future, so that each other will have space, and she will be able to catch her breath.
For Lili, the first house is considered her own private property, she let Yi Qiang live in, because he is her husband, in the future is to live together, as for the mother-in-law is a little bit of a backward feeling, because embarrassed to kick out, so can only be suffocated together.
After finally having the ability to be free, Lili must be especially excited and wary of her mother-in-law. In the end, it's still the mother-in-law who has no idea what's going on in her heart, has crossed the line, and thinks that her daughter-in-law is being petty, when it's clear that she's doing something she shouldn't be doing.
In fact, the daughter-in-law and mother-in-law to get along, to maintain a certain distance, not too strong, but also have their own principles and bottom line. Ugly words in front, so as not to repeatedly compromise concessions, secretly hurt.