One of my high school classmates, in my impression, she has always been a lively and cheerful girl, and she loves to laugh. But when she was in love, she suddenly stopped believing in love. The reason is complicated. Because of his poor performance in the college entrance examination, she chose not to go to college and went directly to work in the factory. But in high school, she made a boyfriend, and the boy's family was very poor. Even the tuition fee for going to college is difficult to collect, so my high school classmates often remit money to my boyfriend at work, and his boyfriend often confuses him with sweet words, so this makes my high school classmates fall into his trap constantly.
So my classmate has been providing this boy with a three-year college education. When she went to his school one day, she found that he had made a new girlfriend on campus, but she kept pestering her because she was afraid that she would stop sending him money. My classmate was heartbroken when she saw this scene, because she had been waiting for this boy to graduate, because the boy said that they would get married when he graduated from college. But this is the sweet talk of this boy after all, so my classmate has never believed in love since he broke up with this boy decisively.
Up to now 10 years have passed, and she is still single. Whenever we ask her about her feelings, she always downplays it: actually, living alone is quite good. It can be seen from here that he was so hurt in that relationship that he dared not believe in a new relationship in his later life.