Life can't always be smooth sailing. There will always be swords and shadows on the road, full of thorns. We must learn to face these. You know, the shortcut to success is to go straight along a road without hesitation.
Xiang Yu won't face it, when he is under siege and can't exert himself; When the fragrance dies, the tears of the overlord fall instantly; When I was surrounded by Wujiang River, I felt that "the death of heaven is not a crime of war"; When the director of the pavilion advised him to cross the river, the sun set and the clouds surged, he could have rallied and made a comeback, but he gave up facing the reality and chose to escape, turning his young life into a touch of red. He is not a complete person. When he simply ended himself, success never came to him again, and he failed forever, leaving a lasting regret for future generations.
Sima Qian chose to face it. When this is the heart of Emperor Wu Kuan, it is designated as the top; When the owner has no extra money and can't redeem himself; When he thought about life and death and accepted the death penalty, how easy it was to die, but he lived for historical records. At the moment of making this important choice, a successful order was ready for him. He chose the hard life and gave up the simple escape. He bravely faced the contempt of the world, the condemnation of drag out an ignoble existence, and the nondescript situation. As he himself said, "Every time I think of shame, I have to sweat on my back." "I don't know where I'm going alive." It is in this state that he is under great mental pressure and writing legends. Although he was executed in this way, we saw a really capitalized herringbone and the wisdom he faced. He succeeded, Historical Records became a classic handed down from generation to generation, and he himself became a great historian from an unknown historian, writing an unprecedented sum in human history.
Xiang Yu escaped, only death and failure greeted him; Sima Qian faced vividness and success. Although the limbs are sound and brave, there is a corner missing in the spiritual field; Although the other is disabled, it shines with eternal glory. This is the difference between avoiding and facing.
Let's learn from history and learn to face it.
Grow up in adversity
Without wind and rain, there would be no maturity of autumn fruits; Without the biting wind, there would be no tenacity of pine and cypress. In adversity, don't blame others blindly, but think more about how to overcome difficulties. Peterson said: "In life, there are often countless blows from the outside world, but the final decision is in your own hands."
Adversity gives people valuable opportunities for tempering. Only those who can stand the test of adversity can become truly strong. Great men at all times and in all countries struggled out of adversity with indomitable spirit. Beethoven, who was deaf, trudged on the black and white keys covered with thorns, knocked on the sacred door of fate with his fingers, and made a brilliant movement in which musicians struggled tenaciously against bad luck. Sima Qian endured the pain of castration and completed the historical masterpiece Historical Records. Zhou Wenwang was detained and played Zhouyi. "Heaven will descend to the people of Sri Lanka, and they must first suffer their minds and work hard." Therefore, adversity is a stepping stone for the strong to climb the peak and an abyss for the weak to go to destruction.
Some countries in Europe and America deliberately turn straight roads into detours. The high cost of road construction and driving time are really "asking for trouble" for Europeans and Americans who have economic minds and regard time as money. But they think it is worthwhile, because speeding on a straight road without any obstacles for a long time can easily paralyze people and lead to traffic accidents. With the obstruction of corners, drivers must always be vigilant and dare not take it lightly. Facts have proved that their approach is wise.
Adversity needs neither praise nor expectation, but it must be faced squarely. Once we are in adversity, the most important thing is to have confidence, perseverance, courage, perseverance and practical spirit. Even at the end of our rope, we still have to think that we will have a turn for the better. Since ancient times, anyone who can achieve great things is a down-to-earth and hard-working person. It is better to retreat into a net than to fish in the forest. Sighing is not the way, and fantasy is not the way. Only by doing it with confidence can we get out of the predicament.
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Edison spent ten years, after 50 thousand experiments, invented the battery; Zhu Kezhen, a famous scientist, went on a field trip in his seventies and got first-hand information. Until the last day, he never forgot to make scientific research records. How many difficulties and hardships they have overcome! Many advanced figures set an example and explained the value of life, the meaning of life and where and in what form it should be embodied. Plum blossoms can't be fragrant without some hardships. Let's learn to be strong, learn to fight, and struggle out of adversity, which will become our great wealth. I appreciate ostrovsky's words: "Life is like a flood, and it is difficult to stir up beautiful waves without touching the islands and reefs."
When I face setbacks,
What is life? Proud people say this is good wine; The frustrated say it is bitter water; The winner said it was a rainbow; Losers call it clouds. Dumas said that life is constantly frustrated and constantly pursuing hope.
A person's life can't be dull and calm forever. In this long journey, we will inevitably suffer setbacks and failures, big and small. Life without failure is not a complete life.
It is not terrible to suffer setbacks, but it is terrible not to suffer setbacks. Because only after experience can we know how to face it and feel the pleasure after overcoming setbacks.
Life is a tortuous adventure. When you are desperate, don't give up, because looking up is the most beautiful starry sky!
Failure and frustration in life have an inevitable side; It also has positive and negative effects. It can not only make people mature and succeed, but also destroy their future. The key is how you face setbacks.
When I face setbacks, I say to myself, "Never give up". It is precisely because the sun never gives up that it finally breaks through the horizon and shines on Wan Li; It is precisely because the grass never gives up that it never gives up, and finally makes the earth full of green.
When I face setbacks, I will face them with a happy heart. Happiness is my most precious wealth. It taught me how to face the pain caused by every setback. "Pain and happiness" properly sums up our life. Who doesn't seek happiness in pain? Who doesn't learn to be strong when he is injured? Knowing this, the pain in frustration will be more meaningful and the happiness in life will be better cherished.
When I face setbacks, there is only one word to encourage me, "the sword is sharpened, and the plum blossom fragrance comes from bitter cold." Setbacks tell me too much ... in short, setbacks are just a small stepping stone in the long journey of life. As long as you can get up strong after falling, the future is bright!
Face the troubles in life
If you choose the sky, don't long for sunny weather;
If you choose the earth, don't be eager for smooth sailing;
If you choose the sea, don't long for peace.
Nine times out of ten, the unpleasant things in life are like a bottomless pit, which bothers us all the time. But you have to summon up the courage to say to yourself, "I can do it!" " "
When the eagle chose the blue sky, it knew that only the vastness of the blue sky could give it a chance to fight the sky, so the eagle returned with persistent soaring;
When the fish chooses clean water, it knows that only the clarity of running water can show the beauty of wandering in the shallow bottom, so the fish returns with joy.