Is it necessary to enroll children in interest classes? There have always been two camps.
Don't parents think their children's childhood is just fun? Why give him such a big burden?
You can't play more when you are young, but you won't play when you grow up. Enrolling in so many interest classes completely deprives children of their right to play.
Other parents think differently from the above. They think that when children are young, the study pressure is not so great, but they should learn more. Children who have never attended primary school have a lot of time, so don't give them more interest classes.
Because the pressure of social competition is too great, children enter the big environment as soon as they are born, and every parent wants their children to win at the starting line.
As parents, no matter which camp we stand in, we have many ideas about children's education. We should always know that we are educating a child. They are not things, but living people with their own thoughts.
When we do something, we pay attention to children. Whether the child is so willing to do this thing is the most important thing.
My family Dabao is 6 years old, and I have always been relatively calm about my children's interest classes. Of course, I also hope that my children can learn more things, which is also the idea of parents in the later period.
But for children's interest classes, I am partly concerned about children's ideas and hobbies. The other part considers my own pocket. As a mother of two children, I have to consider whether I can have the energy to accompany my children to interest classes and the cost of attending classes all the time.
There are two girls in our family. When Dabao was in a small class in kindergarten, she chose June 1 children to dance, and she liked it very much. So the first interest class we signed up for was dancing, and she repeatedly asked us to sign up before signing up. In this way, her willingness to study is particularly strong, and she is very happy to study hard.
The class she signed up for is one class a week, and classes are held at 2 pm every Saturday. She likes dance lessons very much. She gets up early every Saturday to prepare for the dance she wants to dance.
Usually eating is hurried, but this day eating is very active. And I will do it seriously in class.
At that time, you will find that interest is really the best teacher. For what a child likes, it is not forced.
Of course, the more things you like to do, the better. For her, doing what she likes is a kind of enjoyment, not that she is tired of learning this thing.
Therefore, if she likes taking classes, she really shouldn't take too many classes. Instead, she has learned to arrange her own time.
I don't know if she likes painting, but she took part in a painting audition class in the summer vacation, and she liked it after four classes.
Later, because the painting class moved to a far place, it was inconvenient to attend classes here, so I didn't attend.
But she still likes it, in order to keep her hobby.
I bought her home painting materials, plus some knowledge she learned in previous classes.
Every week, let her draw her own pictures according to the pictures on the computer and post them at home. At this time, she felt a sense of accomplishment. She thinks she paints beautifully. In fact, I also think his paintings are great, which gives her great encouragement, makes her more and more confident and interested in painting.
But when painting, we both do it together, and then she is responsible for coloring. Maybe the mentality is relatively peaceful. We don't think he should study hard either. How's it going? Just saying it's a hobby. I think it will be very good for her future growth. Moreover, I have been with my children like this, and I have always been very efficient, because we have done what we like to do together.
For interest classes, my personal understanding is that children like it the most important.
Instead of measuring it with a utilitarian heart. For example, how will learning this help in the future? It's easier this way.
We won't say how well we want our children to do. Or he does very well, as long as he enjoys the learning process.
For example, I'm going to dance, and my bones are particularly hard. Maybe I never liked it myself.
But in fact, it's like dancing square dance, if you dance with your heart. In fact, music and dance steps are not the key. The key is to broaden your horizons. Cultivating more hobbies is also a pleasure for my body and mind, which I also realized in the process of accompanying my children.
Because she has been my little teacher since I learned to dance and draw with my children. When I was practicing at home, she took my sister and me to dance.
As long as the children study hard, at first, I will feel that it is not particularly easy to say. Alas, my children didn't get a little star today.
But then I tried to think otherwise. Because as soon as I saw the music, the children were dancing seriously and happily.
Everyone's talent is actually different, so we can't say what to expect from her. But whether she is happy inside. Of course, this thing can be learned very well, and it is of course good to achieve certain results.
In short, as long as children are more interested in learning and love learning in interested classes, it is definitely beneficial. If he doesn't like anything, we will spend more time with the child and try to find something she likes. Everything is treated peacefully, and the future is still very long. We grow up with our children, and this process is the most critical.