1. Get along well.
When two people are together, they must communicate. How to get along better and make both sides feel that this is a more comfortable state is the key to getting along.
In short, we should respect each other. When you first fall in love, don't get too close to each other, or you will scare them away.
Don't be too dependent on each other. At first, you may win each other's favor, but over time, the other party will feel trouble and even get bored.
In addition, playing a little temper in love sometimes requires attention. Noisy in love sometimes enhances the feelings between each other, but if it is too headstrong, the effect is completely opposite.
Don't do whatever you want according to each other's preferences. Everyone's patience has a certain limit, because if you like you, your heart will change.
When you make him feel bored and disappointed, he will not continue to tolerate you, nor will he condone your willfulness.
Quarrel can't be a cold war.
Many people encounter disagreement in love, and when they quarrel, they will subconsciously choose to ignore each other and not listen to each other's explanations, that is, a person is angry.
At first, the other party may have the patience to explain and apologize to you, but long-term attempts can't get your response. What you see is that you don't want to care about him, and no one will be patient.
Although a short cold war can calm each other down and think about who the problem is, a long cold war will only consume each other's feelings. Many couples broke up because of the cold war quarrel, and finally they didn't want to fool anyone.
Therefore, in the process of falling in love, try to avoid the cold war. If you have something to say, just say it. Let's solve it together. The cold war can't solve the problem, it will only make it worse.
3. Keep the mystery as it should be.
Finally, what is the most important thing in falling in love? In fact, the key to running a relationship is freshness, because people are always fascinated by new things, and so are people. Before they fully understand what kind of person this person is, they can't help but want to continue exploring.
Falling in love is actually a process of getting to know each other. At the beginning of love, you may like each other because of some characteristics of each other, and love gives you time to explore other characteristics of each other.
Of course, this is not only an optimistic side, but also a bad side of the other side. At this time, you should consider whether you can accept and tolerate his shortcomings. If possible, continue to get to know each other and manage this relationship well.