For everyone, having a happy and beautiful family is the greatest desire. However, in this real life, not everyone may achieve what they wish for. Some suffered betrayal, some lost children, some couples were at odds, some lost their health, some were at odds with mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, some were gambling addicts, some were disobedient and unfilial, and so on.
It turns out that happy families are the same, but unhappy families have their own misfortunes. If each other does not have the same goal and never understands the feelings of others, the distance between them will become farther and farther, and happiness will only become an unattainable dream.
A harmonious and warm family is the goal that each of us pursues, such as: happiness as a couple, success at work, deep love between mother and child, filial piety and love for relatives, double care, and happiness in daily life. Spiritual happiness is sometimes a key, and this key is held in our own hands. A warm home not only requires money and substances, but also a rich spiritual life. May we all give everything we have to create a harmonious, happy and happy home for ourselves, our loved ones, and our children. Family discord is harmful to children throughout their lives
I have a friend, Xiaolu, who still can’t find a boyfriend. Everyone thinks she is arrogant and wants to find a rich man, but I know she is not.
She has been addicted to the marital discord between her parents and family since she was a child. She is worried about marriage and afraid of marriage, so every time marriage is mentioned, it fades away.
Her father has been fond of gambling since he was a child. He has no enterprising spirit and cannot bear hardships. He has no sense of responsibility when it comes to his relatives, and is very persistent in not listening to other people's suggestions. He never thinks about it, and even if he doesn't do something right, he has various reasons to shirk it.
At home, her mother also had strong negative emotions, complaining about this and that. For a woman, marrying the wrong person will lead to a lifetime of suffering.
Xiaolu has a cheerful personality and has always been very diligent. Xiaolu feels that she and her mother are both victims in the family. She has already recognized her father's cold-bloodedness, hypocrisy and selfishness.
She has had enough and is used to it. Her feelings for her father are nothing but boredom or boredom. I don't even want to call him dad. She said that sometimes she wanted to escape from this world so much that she would rather not have this father.
But she had no choice but to put this pain to rest. But because of her father's influence, she has always been afraid of falling in love and unwilling to get married. Perhaps due to lack of self-confidence, I feel that it is not easy for anyone to be happy when a father with this kind of marriage is married. Since you don't have the strength to get out of trouble, why bother hurting others?
I once visited Xiaolu's home, and I clearly experienced that the atmosphere in her home was very depressing. Even if she didn't say anything and there was no struggle, the inexplicable exciting atmosphere made me feel uncomfortable all over my body.
You have to be cautious and cautious when speaking and doing things. What's more, if your friends have been in such an atmosphere for a long time, it's no wonder that they become less confident, more sensitive, sensitive, and worried about contact with others.
Good relationship between husband and wife is necessary for children to create a sense of belonging. Because the emotional relationship between her parents is not very good, Xiaolu is very sensitive and her emotions are also very sensitive.
Although you usually try to pretend that you are very happy and never worried, the damage and memory acquired in childhood will interfere with your baby's life. Because the demand for love and belonging cannot be met, all thoughts can only be put into the psychological state. I have always cared too much about other people's opinions, making myself very depressed and unhappy.
The most beautiful sentence I have ever heard is: "If you love your child, you only need to do one thing, and that is to love his mother well."
Children are the crystallization of love. Only when parents have a harmonious relationship can they give their children the best environment for development. Most of the children's future requirements for love and divorce experience come from subconsciously imitating their parents. Only a good relationship between husband and wife can allow children to grow up healthily and happily, and a happy marriage.
Money is not the most important thing for a harmonious family
Home is not only a house, but also a haven for everyone’s soul and a resting place deep in the soul. Home is warm and dependable, and it is the light in our hearts that will never go out.
I have asked myself many times in my heart: What is happiness? What kind of family is considered a happy family? What should you do to have a happy home?
I think in "Where Are We Going, Dad", the children who grew up in a loving family environment actually cried. I envy the freedom, innocence and lovability among children.
For children, the greatest happiness is to truly be themselves, grow up freely and happily.
We are easily moved by these pictures full of warmth, because in our hearts, we have longed to have a happy and happy family.
A friend of mine has been in a relationship with her boyfriend for 4 years or broke up. The other party said: "You chose to leave because I am poor and have no money?"
We were very frustrated. When we were together, we thought that if we didn’t have money, we could at least give them a lot of love, and just work together without any substance. But after being together for 4 years, the other party can't be down-to-earth at all and only thinks about opportunism.
Love is mutual. Only when you invest a certain amount can you gain a certain amount. No one can see a happy future, and in the end they can only choose to separate and end a relationship.
Women are not afraid of men who have no money, but they are afraid of boys who have no money but have not worked hard to make money. In this era, social development is very realistic, but there is nothing to be afraid of if you don't have money. If you are willing to work hard and let others see your changes, all difficulties will be waiting for you.
But after being together for 4 years, why can’t everyone realize the beautiful tomorrow you talked about before? The opposite is the nagging quarrels and the distress of disconnectedness.
You might as well ask, if you have no money and no ability to be a lover, why do you require other girls to marry you? If everyone is just self-centered and never thinks about changing, working hard, or thinking about others. It’s not just to blame others when something goes wrong, but never to find a way to negotiate. Such a result can only turn into a tragedy in the future.
Many people have always felt that money is the key to creating a harmonious family. Although money is important, money is not everything. If a person is blinded by money, he will lose everything, let alone appreciate the spiritual beauty of daily life.
There are some people in daily life who still live very happily even though they don’t have a lot of money. Therefore, a warm home is not about being rich or wealthy. Just being together is comfortable, casual, and healthy.
I firmly believe that as long as a person has the ability to make his family harmonious, even if he has nothing else, he is still a successful person.