Anyway, I'm in the circle of friends.
Every time I see such a dynamic, I choose to ignore it and skip it.
If you happen to be this kind of person, I suggest you go and see the movie "Send You a Little Red Flower", which is definitely a bowl of poisonous chicken soup that specializes in treating pretension.
As for whether it can be cured, it all depends on the individual.
The plot of the movie is very simple, the story of two ordinary families and other ordinary people fighting against cancer.
In the movie, the hero Wei Yihang feels very unfortunate, and is very negative in his fight against cancer, living a very sad life, until he meets the heroine Ma Xiaoyuan, who starts to become more positive.
One of the moments impressed me.
Wei Yihang goes to Ma Xiaoyuan after getting drunk and spills his guts.
He felt that the heavens just disliked him so much, and whenever he had a little bit of comfort in his life, he was put into a difficult mode.
"So who do you think the heavens like?"
Ma Xiaoyuan's cross-examination is serious and earnest.
The grandmother wearing a raincoat in the dark and rainy night, her grandson was abducted three years ago, and she searched the world for three years. Whenever it rains, she waits by the utility poles, waiting for the rain to stop, and then puts up a new search notice.
Brother Zhang, who was born deaf and mute, was sitting on the side of the road eating instant noodles. He is a delivery man, responsible for half a street, and he can only communicate with his customers using the audio that other people have recorded for him, and he is often complained about by his customers, and has been injured by drunken men.
"Do you think God likes them?"
Ma Xiaoyuan once again issued a soul torture.
Who is not dead with life?
When Ma Xiaoyuan was five years old, she took a lot of medicine. At that time, she knew that life was never easy.
But she is still optimistic and positive, but also become a lot of people's little sun.
Don't think that you are the only one who suffers, and don't think that you are so different that you are under the special care of God.
Everyone, who is not seriously trying to live, who is not suffering at the same time, but also to move forward with tears?
I especially like this sentence: strong people are not no tears, but also tears to move forward.
Life is never easy. As someone said, life is like an electrocardiogram, a smooth sailing will hang.
Life, really never an easy thing.
The suffering you have experienced, others may not experience, but you have to believe that others have suffered may not be less than you.
So don't feel that life is unfair to you, everyone is better than you, only you are so difficult.
There's no need to be melodramatic about it.
If you really feel that your life is too bitter, it is highly recommended to see the movie "send you a little red flower", dry this bowl of poisonous chicken soup designed to cure the mood.
The significance of many movies is that they not only point out the crux of the problem, but also often give us a way to solve it.
This movie, while specializing in the treatment of sentimentality, also tells us that we should be positive and optimistic in the face of life.
This is reflected in the movie in many ways, and my favorite is the video that Wei Yihang's parents shoot to their son.
The video is based on the assumption that the son is gone, and centers around how mom and dad would go about their day.
The video captures the parents having breakfast in the morning, going to the movies after breakfast, square dancing in the park in the afternoon, and so on throughout the day.
Very warm but content and joyful, this is a couple of ordinary and ordinary day.
Although the son is gone, life goes on, and you have to be positive and optimistic.
If you feel that life is just hard for you, you may want to pay more attention to observe other people. If life is difficult for you, you have to fight with it to the end.
It's because life has suffered so much that we should fight it all the more, shouldn't we?
Feel the work life is hard, should not be pretentious "self-loathing", but should be a desperate counterattack, but also to the color.
May you and I be cured of all our pretensions, and cure it with a victorious attitude.
May all the suffering you and I have endured in the past be a pavement for future surprises!
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