Not marriage can not withstand the test, but sometimes you will be tested and hurt the marriage, I called Mei Ling, I and my husband is a college classmate, at that time he was very inferior because of his own rural origin, obviously like me do not dare to show, and finally I was really anxious to do nothing, he was blocked by me in a corner only to say that "I love you", although my husband was very good in other ways, he is the vice president of the student body, and also the campus. Although my husband comes from the countryside, but he is particularly good in other areas, is the vice president of the student union, but also the president of the campus writer's association, which shows that my husband is a talented boy, but also because of the fascination with his literary talent, I will fall in love with him at first sight, we graduated from school after his own efforts to find a very good job, when I introduced him to his parents, parents are very happy, but After hearing that he came from the countryside, his parents immediately changed their faces, they do not agree that we are together, they think that I follow my husband is no future, and will often suffer, and finally at my insistence they still compromised, it is said that poor parents, when we got married, our parents also know that my mother-in-law can not get much money to organize the wedding, so our wedding was held with the assistance of our parents.
It was the first time I saw my mother-in-law on the day of the wedding, and she did look like an ordinary peasant woman, wearing a washed-out white dress, and a scarf around her head, speaking a fluent native language, and my parents did not want to sit down with my mother-in-law, but in order to take care of my husband's feelings, or to force her to sit down with a smile on her face. After the wedding, the mother-in-law lived two days back home, our days and back to business as usual, my husband and I normal commute to work, and then go out shopping on weekends, we got married less than a year I was pregnant, my reaction to vomiting is particularly large, eat something on the vomit, would have liked to let my mother to take care of a period of time, but at that time, she said that she was preparing for the square dance competition thing to vacate the air, then my husband and I! I'd like to talk to my mother-in-law about taking care of me for a while, I didn't want to, but my husband kept analyzing the pros and cons of having my mother-in-law here, and in the end, he won, and the next day, he took my mother-in-law from the countryside to come here.
Once again, I saw my mother-in-law, still washing the faded clothes, I have to say that although my mother-in-law lives in the countryside, but cooking is really hygienic, and household chores are also well organized, every day to change the pattern of cooking for me, and I am also happy with it, just in my mother-in-law's impression is getting better and better, my mother gave me a phone call, and she asked me how my mother-in-law's performance in the home, and I was honestly told my mother, my mother said that my mother-in-law is a good woman, but she is not a good woman. I told my mother that my mother-in-law had other intentions, and that her behavior was just to win your favor, and then take the opportunity to offer to live here, or let you give her money, and my mother gave me a good analysis, and then my mother also told me that if I let my mother-in-law stay, my life would not be easy, after all, for the mother and her son, I'm an outsider, and I can't beat them with two fists, and that's how I felt about my mother-in-law. The mother-in-law's good feelings are all gone, bent on driving her away, but there is no legitimate reason, that day my mother came over to see me, and then gave me said: "girl, wait I find an opportunity to put 30,000 yuan into her house, and then you say you lost 30,000 yuan, go to her house to turn over, as long as you see this money, she should go".
After listening to my mother's words, although I do not want to do this, but in order to drive away my mother-in-law I had to agree, and so my mother left, I said I lost 30,000 yuan, and asked my mother-in-law if it was in her house, and she said no, but I do not believe that I forcefully go to her house to search, and sure enough, found 30,000 yuan under her pillow, except that there are whole dollars and zeros of the money, and I thought my mother was doing such a thorough job, and when When I took the money to my mother-in-law, she said it was the 30,000 yuan my father-in-law had entrusted to someone to bring a few days ago, and it was the money they had saved from selling food.
After listening to my mother-in-law's words, of course, I do not believe, I also specifically called my husband back, when he knew about this matter, see my attitude, he had to sigh and send his mother away, looking at the back of their far away, I'm happy, and I feel that my husband's heart is full of aggression towards me. After they left, I rushed to call my mother said that the mother-in-law has been driven away, but my mother said that she had not had time to put the money into the house of the mother-in-law, then I heart thumped, the original money is really the mother-in-law's hard-earned money, think of this, in retrospect, my attitude just now, I feel that I have gone too far, I rushed to call with my husband to let him bring the mother-in-law must be brought back, and so my mother-in-law came back, I was in tears! When my mother-in-law came back, I tearfully fell on her shoulder and shouted the late "mom". The first thing I did was to ask my mother-in-law to come back to my house, and she said, "I'm sorry, I'm sorry, I'm sorry, I'm sorry, I'm sorry.
Sentiments: Many women always want to test their husbands' loyalty to the marriage after they get married, Xiao Qiang thinks that the basis of marriage is trust, everyone has their own personality bottom line, most of the men's bottom line is nothing more than three: the land under the feet of the parents at home, the arms of their wives and children, if you break through the bottom line of these three, to meet the will be a storm.