Some people think that it is hard for me to retire, and I don't want to go back to work, I want to raise flowers at home, read books, and live a quiet life. But women are so used to hard work that they simply can't stay idle, and many continue to go out to work and give play to their spare time.
The following is the 55-year-old Dai's experience of working, you will know the answer after reading it.
I was 50 years old when I retired, the retirement salary of 3500 a month, completely enough for me to live alone, my partner is still working, more than 6000 yuan a month income, I do not go to work, stay at home to raise flowers and grass, food, clothing and use are not worried.
I have two sons, when the family planning is very strict, we spend a lot of money, trust a lot of relations to give birth to the second, the two children are also very competitive, both went to college, I retired, they are also in the workplace, I do not have the slightest pressure.
Remembering that when I was young, I had to take care of my children and husband all year round, even when I was sick, I had to cook and do housework, so I really suffered a lot.
Now it's hard to retire, I want to enjoy life, I bought a lot of flowers planted in the balcony, usually catch up with the drama, swipe the phone, and occasionally go to the square dance, the day is so happy, my husband at the company dinner, I do my own meal, it's really easy.
After two or three months of such a relaxed and happy life, I can not stand it, usually busy used to, idle me instead of feeling all wrong, so I decided to go to look for another job, I'm still very young, I can still do a lot of work, save up a little money, the two sons to marry their wives and also spend a lot of money it.
I ran for several days, can not find a suitable job, I am also a bit of cultural background, to sweep the road and I am not willing to, the other companies inside the recruitment of people under the age of 50, so I did not find a suitable.
Later, a sister in the village introduced me to the People's Hospital as a cleaner, but at first I refused, saying that I couldn't do such work as mopping the floor and cleaning the toilets.
The sister said: "Don't worry, I know you are educated people, how will let you go to do those jobs, although you are a cleaner, but do not have to do hygiene, just need to sit in front of the door to check the patient's health code.
Registering the patient's information with the scheduling will be fine, because we belong to the property company, the employees recruited are security guards and cleaning, cleaner is just a name."
Listening to her, I agreed and followed her to work at the hospital the next day.
My job was to check patients' health codes and trip cards at the entrance to the hemodialysis ward, then get them to register on the flow chart, and I would line them up for a place in the hemodialysis unit.
The job looks easy, but it's actually very tiring, because most of the patients here are elderly people whose children have given them smartphones, but they don't know how to use them, so I have to open the health codes and travel cards for them every time, and I have to pick up 50 to 60 patients a morning, so it takes a lot of time to check these things.
Because the people who come to do hemodialysis are all acquaintances, they have this disease, they come to do dialysis three times a week, and some of them have been on dialysis for more than ten years, the hospital is more familiar to him than his own home, so he is tired of having to look at his health code every day, and he refused to cooperate, refused to give me a look, and I can only patiently persuade him to give me a look until.
Every patient has to fill out a flow chart and take a temperature, and many old patients who have been doing this for years refuse to fill it out, saying they can't write, so I can only ask him to fill it out while helping him, and he's still impatient, so I can't lose my temper, but I can only talk to him, which is a very aggravating thing to do.
Particularly some patients, he was sick, irritable, bad temper, to come here, inexplicably angry at me, the hospital regulations to the time to go in, those bad-tempered patients, came to go in, at the door to make a fuss, several times I was angry and cried.
In addition to the patient's anger, but also by the leadership of the gas, if you missed a patient did not check the code, the leadership will be angry scold you for more than half an hour.
And the salary is not high, just 3000 yuan a month, several times I was so angry that I do not want to do, think of staying at home boring, I still hold back.
Then do a long time, slowly mixed with the patients, their attitude is much better, some patients often bring me breakfast over to eat, their own home grown lychee longan, ripe will also take a little over to me.
Some of the older patients, children are not around, she was bored, often call me to chat. We got along like friends, and gradually I fell in love with this job.
In fact, life is like this, bitter and sweet, sour and salty. The work is tiring and frustrating, and you have to come to work on time every day, no matter how windy or rainy it is, you can't be late for a minute.
But it is these rules that constrain us, not to go to work, lying down, do not want to move, think a day without eating is nothing, but become more lazy, do not want to move, the more you lie down, the more you do not want to get up, it is because there is no one to constrain themselves to become so lazy, there are rules to be able to constrain themselves is a good thing.
I have been working in this hospital for five years, and I was very happy doing it, and I got to know a lot of friends. Later, when my eldest daughter-in-law gave birth, I had to take care of her during the month of pregnancy, and after that I had to help her with the baby, so I resigned from the hospital.
Life with children is also very busy, you do not look at a small child family, there is no work to do, in fact, this troublemaker, can make you nothing to do.
While the days with the child are always full of chaos, and the house is just cleaned up and messed up again by him, I feel that it is a very fulfilling life.
The old man likes to be lively, and I have worked hard all my life, do not want to be full of children and grandchildren, the days of the child, there are worries, there are happy, see the little grandson put the delicious food into my mouth, really than eating honey is sweeter than sweet, and I plan to teach my grandson all the knowledge I have learned, and he will soon be my students.
Writing to the end:
Whether a woman should find another job after retirement and give full play to her spare time, there is no specific criterion, it depends on your own situation, if you are a person who likes to be clean and likes to raise flowers and read books, you can stay at home and enjoy the happiness after retirement.
If you're a person who can't stay idle, you can find a job to give play to your spare time, and at the same time, you can meet more colleagues and friends, and you can participate in more outdoor activities, so that you can become more youthful at heart.
Whether or not to look for a job after retirement is all about health, and whichever way you think is better for your health is the way to go. But all older people can live the life they want and enjoy their old age in peace.