In marriage, the harmony of the couple's life and so on, seriously affects the relationship between husband and wife. Whether for men or women, this is a physiological need. Once the lack of long-term, the human body instinctively will rebel and uneasy.
Especially for men, conjugal life is a necessity of life, and whether they can feel happy in marriage mainly comes from whether the conjugal life is harmonious.
But the pressure of life after marriage is really big, many men go out to work, and the two couples live in different places. This is a very painful thing for men, they will feel distressed and lose motivation for life. In the face of such a situation, how do men deal with it?
Mr. Yang, in order to see my wife often, I try to choose a place to work close to home.
Before I got married, I had a good job, but it was far away from home, so I basically had to go back once a month. I was not married at the time, and I could tolerate it myself, but after I got married, it seemed a little too much to bear.
When I encountered a little problem at work, I couldn't control my emotions. It is easy to quarrel with coworkers, for this matter the leadership also repeatedly find me to talk.
He asked me if I encountered any difficulties, I was ashamed to say. In the end, I talked to my wife and I quit that job and found one that didn't pay as much, but was close to home.
Since then, I feel that my life has returned to spring. I'm in a better mood, and my work is naturally going well. Now I have a car and a house, and my husband and wife live in harmony.
Mr. Liu, long-term separation, always find a way to solve it
I am in the prime of life, outside the fight, but also miss the home, miss his wife, the unit of the life is no way.
While I would love to go back home to get a job and be with my wife. The salary at home is just too low to afford the daily expenses of a family.
I had no choice but to endure the pain of being separated from my wife and suffer. When I really can't stand it, I will try to find a solution, I don't like to go outside to find another woman, I always feel that, that is very sorry for my wife. I think those women are very dirty, so the main way is to endure.
Mr. Qin, the long-term separation, resulting in a husband and wife relationship disharmony, I have an extramarital affair
Long-term outside the run, very tired and hard, there is a bitter to say that, although it is a man, but also need some comfort. All this was solved when I met Xiaolin, who is a gentle, considerate and understanding woman.
It was very good to me and took care of me. She knew I had a family but was still willing to be with me. She never asked me to divorce, but I think she truly loved me, and I loved him, and it was slowly becoming difficult to extricate myself.
Back home, I can't help but fight with my wife, and I don't think I'll be able to stay in a marriage without feelings. In seven years of arguing and quarreling time, finally got rid of the marriage, and not far from another marriage.
Mr. Wu, bear ah, can not help but go home a trip
I remember is the first love, our feelings are very good, although because of the work of the matter of living apart, but still miss each other, in the spare time, we will be video, to each other to talk about their feelings of longing.
In the days of separation, I feel that our feelings are getting better and better, not as others say that more and more fade, but rather feel more dependent on each other. When we saw each other, we were even more like glue, and when we couldn't help it, we would save up all our vacations and take time off to go home.
The days always fly by, so the separation of the day also has six years, never found between us couples sometimes disharmony place, but more cherish each other.
Marriage, there are always so many things that are not as good as the fish and the bear's paw can not be both, we always have to choose to give up something, and learn to appreciate the happiness of the other, in order to make the married life more harmonious, more happy.
Have a job, in order to live, long-term separation of many couples, how do you deal with, long-term separation of their physical needs?