There will always be unsatisfactory things in life. You must evaluate yourself objectively and correctly, be self-aware of your talents, try not to do things beyond your ability, and do not put unnecessary pressure on yourself to avoid letting yourself down. I feel uncomfortable.
Women should help their men in this way:
1. As a woman, nag less, be more diligent, let your husband concentrate on work without worries, squeeze out toothpaste, and do something he loves Eat food, drink a pot of wine, personally wash his feet, squeeze his shoulders and beat his back, so that he can relax. Even if work is not going well, we must have confidence in life.
2. What you have to do is to understand him, support him, and make him feel that no matter how hard it is, you will encourage and appreciate him. Behind every successful man there is a great woman. You must be a woman who is always willing to contribute in obscurity behind him without any regrets.
3. The work pressure is high, and you need to adjust your work methods, adjust your work mentality, and handle interpersonal relationships at work. You can't bear anything for him at work, and you can't share anything.
4. Many women will sigh with their husbands when their husbands are under mental pressure. It seems that they are worried about the man, but in fact it will only make your husband more stressed, which is harmful to men. If a good woman makes a man want to give him the best, then not only will he not be able to give his woman the best, but he will also make her worry about it. The man will feel guilty and the mental pressure will be even greater. . If you can't help at work, you can give your lover a hug when necessary to show your understanding.
5. As the other half, you need to analyze the difficulties with the other party candidly and openly together? Where is the pressure? We are chatting together because due to the current environment of the company, everyone is under great pressure due to the increase in work tasks; whether it is due to my physical strength or my insufficient workload.
6. Men also have a fragile side, and they also need comfort from women. And if a man is stressed and a woman says this to comfort him, it will make the man feel that he is not alone under the pressure, but that there is someone beside him who he can rely on.
I must recognize myself and society clearly, do my best, love life, love work, and love my family. People can't compare themselves to others, people can't always think about things beyond their abilities, just be content with the situation, live one day at a time, and enjoy each day.