I used to be a girl who felt constrained in everything she did. I did whatever my mom and dad told me to do for fear of doing anything wrong. At that time, I felt my wings were tied by my parents, and how I longed to have freedom.
Until that time, I broke away from the rope that bound my wings. That day after school, I was very tired, as soon as I got home on the table, at this time, how I hope that my parents can be more sympathetic to sympathize with me ah! Even if it was just a word of sympathy, but I got nothing. This is even so, dad came out to say words, more make my mood 'a drop in the bucket', 'Minmin I and your mother to discuss, every Sunday let you go to the Children's Palace to study.' Dad said seriously. The sky seemed to darken all of a sudden, and so did my heart: study, study, study again, can't I have something else in my life?'' I've had enough, I'm not!' These words, which had been pressed in my heart for many years, finally shouted out from my mouth. At that moment, I felt as if the sky had changed from darkness to a beautiful sunset, and the repression that had been pent up in my heart for a long time finally exploded without reservation. At this time, I saw my mom and dad's eyes wide open, a kind of never-before-seen astonishment filled their eyes, and they looked at me as if I were a stranger. I said, 'Whether you guys agree or not anyway I'm not going, I've made up my mind, I want to be free.' But I didn't expect my mom to show a smile and said in a serious tone: 'My daughter has grown up, she has to make her own plans in life, and she has learned to be assertive.' She, agreed to my request. At this time, I felt free for the first time, I feel that I have no constraints, I became more cheerful, more serious about learning, academic performance needless to say must have improved. From that time onward, my mom and dad no longer regulate my study life as before, but are more concerned about my life.
In fact, it is the most happy to grow freely under the blue sky and white clouds. The happiness comes from the freedom. The colorfulness that childhood requires can only be found in the games that seeds have.
2. Happiness comes from dedication
Paul said: the most precious thing is life. Life is only once for each person. A person's life should be spent in this way: looking back, he will not because of wasted years and regret nor because of the mean and vulgar and shame; in the dying, he will be able to say: 'My whole life and all my energy have been dedicated to the world's most magnificent cause - the struggle for the liberation of all mankind. I think a perfect life should be like this: come with the expectations of loved ones, and go with the admiration of others.
The emergence of '0' in mathematics is a leap forward in the field of mathematics. But I think '0' is not just zero, it has a deeper meaning.' 0' is like a brand new life that seems so pure, but it is empty and takes a lifetime to fill. Some people say that a person's life is complete if he can have billions of assets. I do not think so, the meaning of life is not to take but to give. The only way to make the original empty '0' become a fruitful fruit is to give.
If someone wants to ask me what is the most happy, then I will be the fastest and most determined to answer you, that is dedication. I think there will be some people retort to dedication is equal to pay, pay will still be happy? If so, I will ask: earthquake, the people's sons and daughters of the soldiers with their own hands to rescue the people buried in the rubble, when they see themselves from the hands of the gods of death to snatch back one after another live life, they dedication, are they not happy? Teachers dedicate themselves to teaching us knowledge, they dedicate themselves, but when teachers see a test paper full of '√', are they not happy? No! They are happy, because dedication itself is a kind of happiness. In my mind, happiness is actually very simple, happiness comes from dedication, and dedication is no matter how big or small.
Happiness is the most wonderful song in life, and dedication is its main theme, just because of dedication is happy. If a person gives as much as he wants and takes as much as he wants, then his life is equal to zero. If a person only asks for a lot without giving, then his life is equal to a negative number. I firmly believe that there is an eternal formula: Happiness = Giving. Let me memorize this formula and use it to solve the equation of life.
3. Happiness comes from friends
As the saying goes, more friends are better, and indeed, having friends adds a lot of happy notes.
'A friend in the sea, the sky is far away.' Friends are the desert in the green oasis, giving us hope of support; friends are the night that a lamp, giving us hope of happy visions; friends are sailing in an indicator, giving us the right direction. Therefore, life can not be without friends, the loss of friends will lose the joy. I am intolerant of loneliness, no pots of soup have the company, will be how sad and the heart of the emptiness. With friends, like having a bowl of chicken soup bubbling with hot air, moisturizing my heart. I made a pen pal, mutual confession of their own heart room in the sorrow, also somehow, with the sorrow to write out to let others to help you, this time the heart is empty a lot. Friends are the key to your happiness. In life, only focus on the pursuit of money people, always back to feel uncomfortable, unhappy. On the other hand, the ordinary people who have friends, and everyone together happily, free and easy. Because friends are you you have the source of happiness. One friend, one happiness, one more friend is one more happiness. Gao Shi with 'Mo worry about the road ahead without a friend, who in the world does not know the gentleman.' He sent off his friend Dong Da. Li Bai sent off his friend Dong Da with 'Peach Blossom Pond is a thousand feet deep, not as deep as Wang Lun sends me off.' He was reluctant to part with Wang Lun. It can be seen that when you part with your friends, you miss the happy times you had at the beginning! Friends are stone, knocking star fire; friends are fire, light the lamp of the night; friends are lamps, light the way ahead; friends are road, lead you to the dawn.4. Happy from the movement
After a day of intense and busy homework, it is the time of leisure movement. I gently hummed a tune and took a light step to the playground to join the running team. It was a cold, cloudy day, with a bitter wind blowing in my face, and I ran carelessly, hoping only to finish the task set by the school sooner rather than later.
In the dense crowd, to my surprise, I found the class teacher, Mr. Yang, busy 'leisure', the posture of the athletes on the runway. I feel warm in my heart, leaving behind the tiredness of study, I try my best to follow the rhythm of Mr. Yang's running, and that moment is the happiest moment of my life.
Sweat flowed on my cheeks and penetrated my clothes, but I still kept running and running, and it was not easy for me to catch up with Ms. Yang, only to see her turn around and nod and smile at me. At that time, I didn't wear a hearing aid, I couldn't understand what Mr. Yang said at all, I felt really sorry that I couldn't communicate with him. After running three laps and completing the task, I was going to leave, I saw Mr. Yang, although he was sweating, he still persisted and continued to pursue his own goals, every drop of his sweat, he soaked his clothes, but he still never stopped, I looked at his back as he ran away, although it was so blurred in other people's eyes, but in my eyes, it was like a crystal clear pearl like a fresh memory I thought to myself: I thought to myself: 'Mr. Yang, you are a good person, you have strong perseverance, it is worthwhile for me to learn, isn't learning the same as running? It's like running, isn't learning like running? Step by step, until the other side of the shore of success, how can you give up halfway at the critical moment? Wouldn't that be cowardly and make people laugh their teeth off?''
It was getting dark, and all the figures on the track were fading away. I do not care about much thought, and continue to run in front of Mr. Yang, perhaps you will be surprised, why do not you go? Already finished the task, perhaps, you simply do not understand what my heart is thinking? I know, I think you may think the same as me. Let us teachers and students kind of back accompanied by the runway drifted away, leaving very shallow footprints and simple memories for the runway, compose a wonderful melody ......
Whether in life, or learning, we should pursue their own life goals, for their own to achieve the goal of perseverance, hard work. I will never be a coward, I want to be a man. This run makes me feel happy!
4. Happiness, from love
There is such a country in the world where people never say 'I love you' to their loved ones, and so I grew up thinking that people in this country lacked a romantic complex of love. But as I grew up, I realized that love cannot be interpreted by a single 'I love you', and as for love, it cannot be summarized in one or two sentences.
Love is the greatest thing in the world, and a heart that knows how to love others has infinite power.
Happiness comes from this infinite power.
When you walk on the street, stepping leisurely, imagining and the girl at the same table to go to the countryside to play on Sunday, oncoming a blind accidentally fell in front of you, you gently go forward to help her up, see her clear eyes and angelic smile, and then heard never heard before the heavenly voice: 'Thank you! At this moment, you will have an impulse to send her home, this impulse makes you full of strength, makes your leisurely empty heart like a dry river was injected into a clear spring, happy feelings like a dike of water out of the heart, to the whole body burst.
Perhaps out of pity, perhaps out of sympathy, perhaps out of love, perhaps out of a memory of the touch, you did so, a simple gesture, an angelic girl to pick up, send her home, and thus know her. It wasn't because you already knew she had clear eyes or deliberately violated her beautiful face, it was simply because of an unconscious act of kindness, because of your heart full of love. So, subsequently you will feel full of power and subsequently happy.
People who don't know how to love can often say a whole lot of philosophies about love, people who don't know how to love others can often make up stories about how they have helped others, and people who are truly kind and loving often act without thinking, explaining away others' skepticism with simple and clear actions. This also reminds me of the recent performance of the 'Da Vinci' furniture company, not to mention how much love the people in this company have, we have to relax the limit of our patience with capitalists, but there are obvious mistakes but do not make a simple and responsible action, which is how different from the shameless Americans. Sometimes those so-called capitalists really think that the Chinese people are easy to fool.
No love, no integrity, money can only be left for you to send to the end!
Happiness, will not accept people without love.
5. Happiness, from the dream
Azure sky, insert a pair of dynamic wings, with a dream to fly freely.
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When I was a child, I used to like to follow my grandmother to stroll along the ridge to see her work hard, and I piled up 'castles' with soil. Grandma laughed and said, ''What a beautiful house your daughter has built, who are you going to give it to?'' This is built for grandma, I'm going to live for grandma, so you can stay with me every day and tell me stories.'' Grandma cheerfully, her bright laughter echoed under the sky.
Favorite summer night, I lie on the chaise lounge to cool off, grandma sitting, take the fan to help me fan while telling stories. Looking at the bright night sky, dotted with stars, feeling the silky cool breeze, surrounded by insects and birds, singing a harmonious symphony. At that time, although I had never realized the true meaning of happiness, I really hoped that this happy day could stay in this moment forever. At some point, an innocent dream was born in my young mind. I pointed to the brightest star in the sky and said to my grandma, 'Grandma, in the future I will build a big, big house with lots and lots of stars. Let grandma live in it and then tell me stories every day.'' Is that so? Then Nui Nui must work hard to realize your dream ah, grandma can wait for you!'' Grandma said smilingly.
The night was quiet and filled with warmth. But this beautiful dream was unconsciously, with the passage of time, it was pressed under the heavy book.
The three o'clock and one line of life pressed me breathless, I do not know when, grandma also can not see the smile on my face. Until one day, Grandma suddenly said to me: 'Have you finished building Nyan Nyan's house yet, I can't wait!' I giggled, grandma gently stroked my head, the kind smile made me feel the warmth and happiness that I had not seen for a long time, so it turned out that grandma still remembered my naive dream all the time. I replied to grandma, ''Grandma, it's almost time. When the time comes, don't forget to tell me stories every day.'' So many stories have been told and you still don't get tired of listening to them, silly girl.'' ......
Grandma evoked memories of my childhood dream, so I tried to find that beautiful dream of mine.
June always comes quietly, so that I can't feel its breath in time. Summer night, I sat in the classroom, quietly on the evening study, the window when the sound of insects chirping birds, look up, look up, suddenly realized that it is already a summer night. I thought of how I once told my grandmother about my dream on such a summer night. It was pure, a colorful dream, and I wanted to hold it tightly in my hands and color my life brightly. I try to pile up the castle of my dream, and the memories are of my grandmother and I's joyful laughter.
'The direction of the heart, waving white wings ...... dream sail away, will not wait for uncertainty ...... 'Happy by the dream, set off, with a dream, sail away.