The opening of the two-child policy, I firmly believe that there are many mothers are faced with the "XuanMei two old man" urge to birth experience. Usually work is not so significant, in the New Year's Eve, back home, seven aunts and aunts also joined the team to urge the birth of a child, so you have nowhere to run, just want to get through the New Year early, so that to work. Some baby moms can not hold up the pressure of work also can only regenerate a, daughter-in-law to reach the needs of the two old, but at present they have regrets to urge the birth of the old, due to the existence of the elderly more serious difficulties, but also very realistic.
Rationale 1: no time
Originally a child, taking into account the baby three years old will be able to ease some of the time and cooking and eating can be managed to transport the car to and from work, free time can also go to the square dance or and the oldest play chess. But the birth of two children, the oldest to go to school, the second baby to take care of, both sides need to be busy, there is no little time to go forward to sneak, out of a door is a problem.
Rationale 2: Paying money is not pleasing
The child is in kindergarten, is in the age of doubt about the world, to see what all want to buy, the elderly and especially cherish, so they will give the little baby to buy. The old man relies on the pension was not much, because in addition to the spending will buy things for the grandchildren, bought some daughter-in-law will say, buy this thing for what? Certainly use has not yet, respond to the daughter-in-law's blame, really out of pocket but not to please.
Rationale 3: education concepts are different
Elderly education concepts or limited to the last world, and today's teaching concepts are all rational, inevitably after the middle of the meeting many differences, the old man with their own son will be "free-range". To the generation of small children, there are mothers and fathers who expect their sons to be in a "free-range" situation, the teaching concepts do not listen to the differences that will arise, there will inevitably be disputes. Elderly people are just trying to have a prosperous, in the case of two grandchildren, but out of N several difficult places. The old man said: regret that he urged his daughter-in-law to have a second child.