In real life, mother-in-law-daughter-in-law relationship is very difficult to deal with, especially some mothers-in-law of their own daughter-in-law requirements are particularly high, or for various reasons, the daughter-in-law will be all kinds of nitpicking, this time it is particularly easy to produce family conflicts, serious and even may affect the relationship between husband and wife, and ultimately lead to the breakup of the family, so as a daughter-in-law should be how to face the Those who are more demanding mother-in-law it, the following are some of the editor's experience thinking.
Some mothers-in-law are more forceful, and even encountered some things when unreasonable, this time for the daughter-in-law, the heart will be particularly annoyed, do not know how to deal with a moment, some daughters-in-law will be directly with the mother-in-law bar up, a time the whole in the home of the chickens flew dog jump. As the saying goes, peace and prosperity, family and everything is prosperous, like this family, if the long term, naturally, will go downhill, then live in the family members, and how can get happy and happy it?
Faced with such a mother-in-law, first of all, you should adhere to the principle, but try to avoid a positive confrontation.
If the mother-in-law is really unreasonable, for this kind of mother-in-law's requirements, if the daughter-in-law to make concessions, this kind of mother-in-law will surely get an inch, the daughter-in-law was aggrieved, suppressed in their own hearts, on the one hand, on their own physical and mental health, on the other hand the so-called tolerate the word on the head of a knife, which is like a time bomb, in the accumulation of a certain degree of time, will surely usher in the bigger! outburst, and then it will be out of control.
So this time must adhere to the principle, can not just give in. But to pay attention to the circuitous, for example, mother-in-law over to nitpick you all kinds of not, you can not in the mouth with her confrontation, and even appropriate to go along with her, but in the action but insist on their own ideas, this way you can avoid a fierce conflict, as if it is to soften the strong character of the mother-in-law a moment to take you can not do anything.
What ideas they do not say face to face and mother-in-law, but should let their husbands appear, sometimes some words from the daughter-in-law's mouth inside out, and from the husband's mouth, the effect is completely different, and will even play the opposite role. Husband and mother-in-law two people have been living together for decades, the feelings between the two of them is the daughter-in-law can not be compared, and their degree of understanding is also very deep, so husbands tend to know how to express, with what method is more likely to let the mother-in-law to accept their own views, so as to play twice the effect of half the effort.
Daughter-in-law and mother-in-law should also enhance the understanding between the free time to sit down and talk about family life, cultivate the feelings between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, or accompanied by her mother-in-law to go shopping, usually buy clothes for her mother-in-law to buy some gifts, and her mother-in-law to go to the square dance, play cards together, etc., when there is a certain amount of affection between the two, a lot of contradictions can often be resolved naturally.
If the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law are really not get along, you can also choose to live separately. Mother-in-law and daughter-in-law often live together, because of living habits, concepts and other differences, conflicts and friction is often inevitable, if the mother-in-law and more demanding, the most direct way is to live separately, do not think that this is not filial piety, in fact, many elderly people they do not like and their children live together, they feel that while they can still take care of their own time, living alone, one is not a burden to the son, the other point is that the son of the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, the mother-in-law and the daughter-in-law can not live together. Not to add burden to the son, the other point will feel more comfortable, not constrained.