In fact, you will find that there is a magic weapon to get along with your mother-in-law. As long as you master these three magic weapons, it will be easy to get along with you, and you will become what others call your mother-in-law.
As the old saying goes, it's better to hear far than near. Although the words are not very nice, the facts are the facts. Many people have many contradictions because they live with their mother-in-law all day. So some people will choose not to live together. In fact, cohabitation is not a bad thing. At least, my mother-in-law lives with us and can share some with us in daily life, but living together every day is like teeth and tongue, and it is inevitable that there will be bumps.
Then how can we keep a proper distance from our mother-in-law? The most important thing is to give each other space to do their own thing without interference, whether they live together or not.
Xiaoli's mother-in-law will come to Xiaoli's house to take care of Yang Yang, but her mother-in-law has a habit of going out to dance in the square dance every day after dinner, no matter how busy the children are.
Therefore, whether Xiaoli is working overtime or at home, or eating dinner outside, her mother-in-law will put the water cup at the door after going out every day and take the initiative to tell her mother-in-law to pay attention to safety and other things.
So let her mother-in-law always praise her daughter-in-law for her thoughtfulness, so Xiaoli sometimes goes shopping with her colleagues. Mother-in-law will not only blame her for not knowing how to keep the house, but also encourage her to dress well. This gives each other space, mutual respect, and they get along well.
After all, the mother-in-law is not a mother, and she should be polite when she should be polite. Sometimes she takes care of us, not for you, but for her son. We should learn to be grateful so that we can get along more harmoniously with our mother-in-law.
Your acquaintance with your mother-in-law shows that it is because of her son and your husband. You are her son's companion for the rest of his life, and she nurtured him. You two have different responsibilities, one is to accompany his childhood, the other is to accompany him for the rest of his life, so when you get along with him, you should know where you should be in charge.
As a daughter-in-law, you can help your son manage her mother-in-law's body and clothes together. The clothes here mainly mean that you can buy his son nice clothes for her.
Health management is mainly to remind her to have a regular physical examination and prepare healthy food for her. These are your rights, beyond which you can ask her son to communicate with him to avoid unnecessary trouble.
As a mother-in-law, you can cook something for your daughter-in-law, or even give her a simple cleaning, but you can't care about her private life, especially her cosmetics and clothes. Remember not to disturb her.
No matter how unhappy you are as a mother-in-law, don't say it. Because your daughter-in-law is the person your son likes, as long as your son takes a fancy to it, you should support her and even give her some praise sometimes, so that the relationship between the two people will have unexpected gains.
In fact, the most subtle relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is her husband's personality. Some people say it is like a sandwich, caught in the middle, in a dilemma.
In fact, the husband's role is very simple, that is, to support his wife. After all, the wife chose her by herself, and she must have taken a fancy to her and should be unconditionally supported.
Moreover, as a daughter-in-law, it is actually very difficult to marry from your own home to a strange environment. How sad it would be for her marriage if even her husband didn't support her.
If you have a supportive husband, when you get along with your mother-in-law, your daughter-in-law will learn to accept her mother-in-law's various things because of her husband's support and tolerance. This is love me, love my dog.
So when two people get along, the role of husband should learn to support his wife and give her enough courage, so that when they get along, they will be considerate and tolerant because of your tolerance, so that they can get along more harmoniously.
In fact, it is not so difficult for mother-in-law and daughter-in-law to get along. As long as you give each other more understanding and tolerance, then two people will get along easily. Many times, put yourself in the other person's shoes and treat each other like family, then all the problems will not be a problem.