? The reality is not idol theater, some people meet has been lucky, romantic that is even more extravagant. We have only a few fragments of our encounters, and the number of times we meet is just a handful of times.
? The summer after the end of the college entrance examination, many students go to work to hone their own, there are many students use this long vacation test driving license, and I belong to the latter. Because the driving school is far away from home, the process of practicing has been living in the driving school. I enrolled in the summer class fast class, subject 2 and subject 3 a **** 7 days practice time. After the test, the driving school to organize the duty, after the duty to go to the subject two practice, I was in the subject three practice place to live, so the duty when dragging luggage, so that after the end of the shuttle bus directly to the subject two there.
That morning, I didn't eat breakfast, and I was hypoglycemic, so I was dizzy all the time, but fortunately it was a cloudy day, so I didn't have to worry about it. After the end of the duty, it was raining, the traffic police let in the cell phone to complete the duty card. I didn't understand the dialect and was confused the whole time. After most of the people had finished, I still didn't know how to do it. Asked several people and I couldn't understand anything they taught me (not taking the test at a local driving school is really a pain in the ass). I was anxiously in place not knowing what to do, when a boy, who came over and asked me in Mandarin, "Is it because you don't know how to do it?" At that moment I saw hope. This boy accompanied me to finish my punch card in the rain, neither of us had an umbrella and we got soaked. After it was over, it was just the two of us, and the roadie in me followed him back to the shuttle bus. It was an awkward first meeting, too, and we didn't say a word on the way.
While we were waiting for the shuttle, he suddenly asked, "Did you go to college?" The silence was broken, I answered "I should go to college" and didn't say anything else. When the shuttle bus came, he picked up my suitcase and put it on the bus for me, and I said thank you several times. I said thank you several times. It seems that from this time on, I have a good impression of this person. After arriving at Section 2, he again helped me with my luggage, took me to check in, and even sent me to the dormitory door. To be honest, I was a bit uncomfortable because a stranger was so warm. After practicing in the afternoon, we ran into each other again and chatted for a while. We talked for a while, including name, age, home address, and university information. After that, we didn't meet again during the four days of practice. The next time I met him was when I was returning home after practicing for my third test, and then returning to my second test to ride home. He enrolled in the regular class, and after I finished both Subject 2 and 3, he was still practicing Subject 2. I didn't know it at the time, I just thought I'd go in and wander around to see if I could meet my instructor. As a result, I didn't meet my instructor and saw him practicing reverse parking. He also saw me and wanted to show me a wave of his skills, but ended up crossing the line hahaha. I left when the car came, and I didn't have a deep impression of this small, average looking boy. I'm not sure if I'm going to be able to get a good deal on this, but I'm sure I'll be able to.
Before the subject three exam, is to simulate a day. A group of four people, taking turns to simulate. I waited for the coach outside the hall, pacing back and forth in the neighborhood. After a step, suddenly a person coughed twice, I seek the sound to look over, the boy sitting on the steps, after two seconds of surveying, I recognized him. And he teased, "Don't you recognize him so soon?" We both laughed. We sat on the steps and chatted about our respective practices, then talked about our favorite cities, our ideal types, and some questions about our college majors. Suddenly, he jokingly popped up, "You see we are so familiar with, not even a contact information," so we added the chat. After that, we never saw each other again, and we never chatted. I'm not sure if you're going to be able to get a good deal on this, but I'm sure you'll be able to.
Later, after some time, he took the initiative to contact me. I'm not sure if you're going to be able to find the best way to get the most out of your time, but I'm sure you'll be able to find the best way to get the most out of your time, and I'm sure you'll be able to find the best way to get the most out of your time. I don't remember exactly what else we talked about that day. I only know that since then, he would share his daily life with me at intervals, and we seemed to slowly start to understand each other. ......
I used to think that the best thing in life is to meet each other. I'm not sure if I've ever had a good time, but I'm sure I've never had a good time before. If we can meet again after a long time, I hope you don't come back.
In just stepped into the university for a long time, my whole person is confused: not clear professional employment direction, do not understand the mechanism of the university's curriculum, do not know their own inner thoughts ...... thousands of miles of school, in Wuhan, such a big city, everything is strange. In such a day without ever dancing, suddenly broke in a light. A very normal evening, after the bath out, pick up the phone to see a message. Yes, it was that familiar stranger.
? (We didn't contact each other for some time after college started. We weren't at the same college or in the same city. All I know is that he, as a sophomore senior, served as an instructor for the freshmen, leading the freshmen in military training. Later ah, he fell in love, the girl should be a freshman, looks pure. I only found out about it through his circle of friends, and that's all I know. In order to avoid suspicion, I also did not look for him again, and then slowly forget this stranger.)
"How have you been?" I received such a message. Out of politeness, I replied "Fine, and you?" , and then he shared with me the recent happenings, including his military training, class push, major courses, and also, his relationship status. I stared at the screen, watching him send a large paragraph message, a time do not know what to say, perhaps I do not need to say anything, I know, he needs to be a listener. Chatting, he suddenly asked me, "Can I give you a call? It's not very convenient to send a message", I hesitated, I am a more conservative girl, before this, has not been with the opposite sex friends on the phone to chat. But I looked at the little essay-like message and said yes. Later, he spilled so many things to me, it seems that he is not living a very good life, otherwise he would not even have a listener, saved a bellyful of things to share with a stranger. Do not advise others to be good without their suffering. I can't comment on what he's going through, I can only comfort him to cheer up.
? I don't know how it is, perhaps with the precedent of the first call, and then when he looked for me to chat, he would request a call, I can't refuse, but I thought it would save each other time, so I agreed. Two less familiar people also slowly understand each other, call more and more open, like a pair of old people catching up. From typing chat to phone calls, then to video chat, I always treat him as a dear friend. Later, unknowingly to the roommate's eyes "ambiguous period"......
Wuhan's ghost weather, the temperature can drop more than ten degrees in one day. I wore a sweatshirt in the morning, and I was freezing in the playground at night. When we chatted that day, I unintentionally mentioned this matter, and he vomited Wuhan's weather, I did not expect, the next day received a courier, is a mink coat! I subconsciously asked him, and sure enough, he sent it. It felt so good to be cared about just by saying something. And later on, during a video call, I said I liked Ferrari, and later on, I received a model of Ferrari. Having never been favored before, my anticipation of such feelings was mixed with resistance. I've never liked it when people are too nice to me, and I'm always afraid that I won't be able to return the favor. But what if people just treat me as a friend? I also feel that I can not be so self-indulgent, so we have been dating for more than a month with this unclear ambiguous relationship. He was always very good at taking care of my emotions, he was an art student and always a good romanticizer. He told me that during the summer vacation of his freshman year, he opened a studio in the city called "Forest Studio". I jokingly said, "really good, have become a boss, I may not be a boss in this life", and then he sent the studio enrollment propaganda in the space, I found that the studio has changed its name. Moreover, it was homophonic with my name! I silently liked that dynamic, just wanted to ask him, the chat box message has not been sent, I received his message "can not be a boss, how about being a boss's wife?" I froze, deleted the unsent message, did not know how to reply to him, so I pretended not to see. He also did not send another message, we have been out of touch for some time ...... again contact, is a boy in the class to me confession, two people do not have any intersection, but also do not understand each other, I naturally want to refuse. Can after four years but also in class together, can not get too embarrassed. I was worried when he suddenly contacted me again, I told him about it. He told me that if you don't like it, you have to make it clear before it's too late, and you can't hold people back. I naturally knew this, but just how should I say it without making it too awkward for each other? "I'm not sure if you're going to be able to get away with this, but I'm sure you're going to be able to get away with this, and I'm sure you're going to be able to get away with this, and I'm sure you're going to be able to get away with this.
Things just finished a few days, he asked me tentatively, "My roommates say we're a good match, what do you think?".
A few days after the incident, he tentatively asked me, "My roommates say we're a good match. I thought he would understand what I meant, but he went on to talk about it. That day, he was like a kindergarten kid who asked his teacher for candy, wanting an affirmative answer with anticipation and courage. I had never been in love before, I was confused and refused. Then for several days in a row, he asked me every day, and I refused every time. I feel that a friendship, once it turns into love, cannot go back.
Life is like a trip with no return, will meet many passers-by, perhaps, some goodbye is never see again.
When the "question of the day: can we be together" suddenly disappeared one day, I was relieved, thinking that this matter is over. After ten days, life finally got back on track. He once again appeared, this time he was very calm, he told me, his roommate let him every once in a while do not contact me, to see if you can endure. On the 17th day of "lost contact", he couldn't help himself. I also seriously consider the relationship, the two people are different places, more than 800 kilometers away, with the Internet dating is no difference. Although he repeatedly emphasized that he could come to Wuhan to find me once a month, but for college students, the cost of meeting is too high. The last time, I refused completely and explained why. Perhaps when the relationship was poked and prodded, there was no way for us to connect as before. After this incident, we did not speak for another two days, and on the third day, I finally made up my mind and silently deleted all the contact information of the two people.
The fanfare to leave are tempting, the real leave quietly, no goodbye ......
Ten million beautiful future, can't resist a warm now; every real now, are the future we once fantasized.
Perhaps, miss you is a major regret in my youth, but "a story, leaving the end of the regret is the value of letting people reminisce". Who is not in the miss and regret in the continuous growth? I am very lucky that I finally met the light that belongs to me.
In the more than half a year after the end of our friendship, I studied hard and worked desperately. Then, just this year on May 1, has been a good relationship with a heterosexual friend, that is, my high school classmates (my back table, in Chongqing to attend college), invited me to go to Chongqing on May 1 to play. I also want to take a break, so I went. Long time old friends, former rivals, thousands of miles to study, we became each other's soul in another country. Yes, we were together, naturally, long distance, I do not know why I can accept this time. My old friend, whom I've known for more than 4 years, became my partner, and by now, we've been together for almost half a year. And, in the future, we will also go on and on, together to go to places we have not been to, to see the scenery we have not seen ......
Don't let the footsteps of other people wandering step on the shattered your beautiful dreams of tomorrow, the world will have no feast that does not fall apart, perhaps hazy is true. There is no reason, it is time for me to leave, I quietly disappeared from your side, after no longer contact. But I will be in the depths of my heart silently for you to bless, for you to pray, I hope you happy and happy at all times.