As the saying goes: raise a son to prevent old age, in fact, this saying is really very reasonable. Now the society is developed, people's ideological concepts have been liberated, always feel that those who raise a son to prevent the old speech is feudalism, but on the words of the past people, after the old man there is no son of the difference is really big, and good and bad is not a generalization, some people's son is very filial piety, will bring unlimited joy to their parents, which is the real portrayal of the raising of a son to prevent the old man.
But there are very few people's son is a little selfish, the heart only think of how to get more benefits from their parents, and do not think about the feelings of their parents, this time will bring their parents a great deal of trouble, so there is no son in the old age is a different situation, to introduce my daily life to see, those who are old after the son and no son of the difference. I would like to introduce the difference between those who have a son and those who don't in my daily life.
1. The unfilial son is not as good as the filial daughter
Mr. Li has two sons, these two sons are graduated from junior high school and then go to work, these are no excuse, but these two sons are not very filial, because Mr. Li retired before the work in a state-owned enterprises, so the treatment is not bad, but their own two sons do not have such a good job, see Mr. Li, the day after day, his son is not a good job, he is not a good man. day by day, his two sons do not think about how to filial piety parents, but think about how to compete for their father's property, both want to get something for nothing.
On the contrary, the two daughters of Mr. Wang's family are very considerate of their parents. In recent days, Mrs. Wang was not feeling well, and both daughters took turns coming to visit, and the medical expenses were shared between the two sisters, and there was never any complaint. From this incident we can see, there is no son of the difference is really quite big, so some times, we have a son or daughter of this matter do not need to be too entangled, perhaps this is really the best arrangement of fate.
2. A filial son will bring a daughter-like daughter-in-law
Things are gathered, people are divided. Many times the kind of person we are will be more likely to attract the kind of person we are. You can't believe everything the old folks say, but you can't disbelieve them either. Mr. Zhao has a very filial son, which is a very famous thing in the neighborhood, every month will regularly give their parents a certain amount of money to spend, have time to come back to visit their parents, although now a lot of the younger generation are doing this, but Mr. Zhao's son also found a daughter-in-law like his filial piety and respect for the older generation, this daughter-in-law is not only more respect for their parents, to their future in-laws are also very devoted.
Mr. Zhao's son's workplace is not far from home, but the company is busy, there are also staff quarters, so not every day to go home, since and his girlfriend together, go home more often, bring their own girlfriends to come together to filial piety to their parents, give them company. In fact, when people get old, having a son is not necessarily good, but having a filial son will definitely bring you different surprises.
Many old people in their own sons and daughters to have a baby will say a lot, want a grandson or granddaughter ah, but in fact, this kind of time do not need to be too entangled, no matter whether it is a boy or a girl, which is the heart of the parents. Although it is said that raising children to prevent old age, but in case of ungrateful son is also really will let parents worry, we have to do is in their own children after the birth of the child, dedicated to them to raise them up, we must know that every child is a gift from heaven to this world.