Parents are definitely for your good, but not always right, so it is said to have the right choice, you can make your own decisions. You shouldn't listen to your parents, if there is no good too good choice, just listen to your parents. That's right, sometimes every family is different and one should be flexible, but in general, it's important to follow the principles of being a human being and not to make things difficult for your parents, that's the most important thing, hmmm. That said, I actually love my hometown very much, where the Yangtze River rolls to the east, where there is a huge lake with gentle scenery all year round, where there is the best breakfast in the country, and where the people are all fierce on the outside and kind on the inside.
Suffice it to say that I never thought of leaving my hometown when I was 20 years old, I thought I would be here chewing on duck necks and eating cinnamon candies and drinking mushy rice wine and eating and drinking with friends I've been close to since I was a kid until I died of old age.
But I experienced a very painful thing when I graduated from college: partly because it was probably not a prestigious school, and partly because my professional counterparts in good companies are not in my hometown, I experienced a long time looking for a job. I went to almost every job fair, and printed out many resumes, but I heard back and had very few interviews.
It was then that I said, I'm going to try to go to another city. I'm not sure if I'm going to be able to do that, but I'm sure I'll be able to do it. I'm not sure how much I'm going to be able to do, but I'm sure I'll be able to do it, and I'm sure I'm going to be able to do it. On all kinds of balaba......
Later because of classmates in Shenzhen first settled, persuade the parents to say a few months finally agreed to go to try me. The reason I'm still grateful to the city of Shenzhen is that it's really full of all kinds of young people with ideals, and the city has accepted me unconditionally, giving me a lot of many touches and tenderness, even if you ask for directions casually on the road, you can also make friends.
More importantly, I was in Shenzhen, and after four days of running the job market, I finalized a job and went to work immediately! This incident really made me start to have confidence in life and believe that I can really support myself! （
While I only stayed in Shenzhen for a short time before leaving, the friendliness it gave me is something I will probably remember for the rest of my life.
I'm also very grateful for the city I'm in now, which has given me opportunities I didn't have in a second-tier city, friends who are fun to hang out with, an eye to the world, and confidence and courage to believe in a future where I'll be able to make a living with my hands.
It turns out that people are capable of not having to listen to their parents~~especially if they don't share the same understanding of the world as we do.
Whether the water is warm or cool, you have to jump in the pool and try it yourself.
Whether friends are good or bad, you have to socialize yourself to know.
Whether clothes fit well or not, you have to try them on yourself to know.
Life is one choice after another, and different choices determine different lives. Life is a series of crossroads, whether to the left or to the right lies in their own choices.
Some things in life, miss a moment, also miss a world. As early as two thousand years ago in the Han Dynasty, a frail woman pushed open the door to the desert with only one hand. She chose to leave her hometown and go to the lonely city in the north of the country. Leaving the warbler song and dance, the birds and flowers, only the desert smoke, the long river sunset. Is the bitterness in her heart as boundless as the boundless Gobi? "I'm alone in Yi He, coming and going change." Her choice in exchange for the country's peace, but lament the grief in her heart who will know?
Our choices shape our lives. Jeff Bezos, the founder of Amazon, became the youngest-ever vice president of a New York bank and trust company at the age of 25, but when he was 33, he turned down a lucrative income to embark on a path of entrepreneurship. This choice of his created a wonderful life of his own. Although we can't predict the outcome after a choice, every choice we make in the moment is determining our future.
Life is a series of choices and decisions. Each seemingly insignificant choice determines our future. Who we will become is never a matter of moments, but rather the result of a constant accumulation of days and months.
Pleasure is a choice, and so is pain. Whatever it is, you can choose to do it with pleasure or with pain. Most people often think that not choosing means not making any decision, in fact not making a choice is also a kind of choice. We always think we don't have a choice, but not making any choice to just freeze in place is also a choice, and you don't have to do that.
Life's paths are all choices. All the situations we encounter now are the result of past choices. Your jobs, your friendships, your life good or bad are all the result of your choices. Direction is always more important than effort, so choose your path in life carefully. The truth of life is simple: what you choose and what you give is what you will surely get.
Choice is a process of self reinvention over and over again, and we continue to improve ourselves on the road to growth. If life is a journey of constant choice, then when a thousand sails read, and ultimately left behind, is a piece of their own unique scenery.