Especially for women, there will be some changes in life and marriage when people reach middle age. At this time, some things are impossible. The more you do, the more unfortunate you will be in your later years.
First, don't embarrass yourself.
When a woman reaches middle age, she looks at other people's husbands' successful careers, their children's academic progress, and their husbands and children's nothing. She felt very weak in her heart, and felt that such a life was unconscious and fell into a kind of melancholy.
It is good for people to pursue something, but it is meaningless to think too much just because of one thing that is difficult to change. This is so sad. Moreover, such unhappiness will also affect the whole family.
Everything goes well at home, even if it is difficult, the family is harmonious and positive. Many things are not so bad, and many things will change invisibly.
Second, don't be opinionated.
Compared with men, women will be more stubborn, especially those who are self-righteous and don't allow others to have opinions. Women should not be too strong and grumpy. They can be tough outside, but they should be gentle at home with their families.
A woman's personality affects the whole family, and it is easy to arouse family conflicts, leading to conflicts with her husband and children, especially the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. When you reach middle age, you should control your temper and don't argue about something.
Don't be separated from your family because you are strong, and then die alone.
Third, take love too seriously.
When a woman reaches middle age, it should be said that she has looked down on love and understood it. But when some women are unhappy in marriage, they always want to have a beautiful love.
At this time, it is easy to have an accident when you just meet a man you like. There are many regrets in life, and few people really stay with the people they like. We can't cause the misfortune of two families because of our own selfish desires.
Focus on life and don't think about those illusory love.
Fourth, it is not kind.
Kindness is always the most beautiful quality of a person. The definition of kindness is very broad, just like those we see in real life. Because a dollar slaps the bus driver, because others don't let their seats fight, and because there is a dispute with others in square dance, it is not kind.
Not only be a kind person, but also don't associate with unkind people. You have lived for four or five years, and you should be able to distinguish right from wrong.
Kindness is one's bottom line.
Although the above four points are easy to understand, they are not easy to do. Study hard for life, marriage, family and yourself.