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In my subconscious, my family is very happy, my father in the county a school as a teacher, mild-tempered, serious about work, mom in a supermarket as a management, the impression is that there is almost very little quarrels between them, and I grew up in their **** with the same care.
Since I remember, my mom rarely dress up, wearing a slightly old-fashioned look, but it looks very pure and natural, and people talk, down and generous, always with a smile on the face.
But now I obviously feel that my mom has changed, and I think she started after the square dance.
Since the beginning of last November, she almost every time out of the house make-up, in front of the mirror in front of the mirror, clothes change again and again, sometimes in the bathroom a stay is more than half an hour, so that I feel particularly perverse. I remember when I was in junior high school, one of my dad's better-connected classmates, a business trip to South Korea, my dad let him help my mom to bring a set of cosmetics, spent more than 600 yuan, my mom saw, very angry, but also and my dad argued, said he spent money recklessly.
Listening to my dad, I said that every day after dinner, my mom was in a hurry to go out and dance, and all the work in the house was handed over to my dad, who was a classroom teacher at school and had quite a lot of pressure at work, whereas my mom's work was much more relaxing, but my dad didn't have any complaints about it, and he didn't say anything about washing the dishes and mopping up the floor.
Although I am a resident student, only go home once a month, but I know, mom's phone calls and text messages more and more, it is almost rare to have a quiet meal with us, before she does not love to send a text message, and now often smile at the phone, every time the phone, she got up to the study to pick up, and close the door, a call is ten or twenty minutes.
During the Spring Festival, my mother often mentioned that Uncle Cheng in front of me, saying how that person's dancing skills were pure fire, how he spoke with a wry sense of humor, and how gentle he was. At that time, I didn't take it seriously, and my mother often chatted with him in WeChat, but every time she finished chatting, my mother deleted the chat. I vaguely feel that this is certainly not a good phenomenon.
Before the Spring Festival, mom said that the unit organized a trip to Huangshan Mountain, a round trip of one **** six days, at that time I was a bit skeptical, but I did not go to ask for confirmation, I was worried that in case mom lied, my heart would collapse in an instant. And dad is always like an old bull, after busy at home, nestled in the study to practice calligraphy and painting, I do not know mom's these abnormal behavior, whether he has noticed.
On the day of Ching Ming Festival, the school was closed, and that night, when my mom came back from the square dance, I secretly looked at my mom's cell phone while she was taking a bath, and I knew it was too much of a mistake to do so, but I did it anyway.
Maybe my mom forgot to delete her chat with Uncle Cheng, and I was really shocked to see that scene. Uncle Cheng was calling her "little baby", and my mom was calling him "my heart", and some of his explicit words made me blush.
You know what that feels like? At that moment, the defense of my heart instantly lost, feel as if their world is going to collapse. The mother who loved me and loved me suddenly became so strange.
According to my personal judgment, mom and uncle Cheng if there is no physical contact, the other side will not be so indulgent. My heart aches for my dad, after so many years of hard work to water and operate the love, the fruit was easily picked by another man.
Dad although just 50 years old, but his mentality and grandfather is almost no different, only know how to earn money, do not know how to enjoy, he gave all the bank card to the mother, and ultimately was mercilessly betrayed by the mother.
I originally wanted to tell my dad to take time to spend more time with my mom in his free time, and not to just immerse himself in his own hobbies. For my mom, material things are important, but the spiritual life is equally important, but I didn't dare to say it, I was afraid that my dad would be too concerned, and if he looked into the root of the problem, the family wouldn't be able to end up in the same place.
I want to find the second aunt to say, she and mom's relationship is the best, but mom in the eyes of everyone in the eyes of the eyes, the reputation is very good, if the second aunt to her, she was hurt, so sex broken how to do?
I have thought about talking to my mom myself, but I don't know how to ask.
I don't know if I should blame my dad, or my mom, but I know that in a marriage, you have to keep good principles with each other, keep the bottom line of the marriage, and a family can stay intact.
A few days passed, my heart still hurts, I hate my mom, but I love her very much. I am a senior student, there is more than a month to participate in the college entrance examination, but now I have no heart to study. Please kindly uncle and aunties to help me, give me some guidance, what can I do to save my family?