? Why is it called this name, because when I think of the Oriental girl, the song that has been lingering in my mind is Fish Leung's "Other people's days are long".
? In fact, human beings are not as capable, intelligent and omnipotent as they advertise. All human beings are recognizing the world while recognizing themselves and recognizing others. So each person has a different situation, a different way of recognizing the world and themselves, a different character, and a different attitude to deal with problems, creating a different destiny for each person.
? In fact, the Oriental girl would like to be an ordinary person, have parents to take care of, have younger siblings love, find a beloved person to stay together for life. However, things are not always as they should be. She met a pair of patriarchal parents, and was abandoned at a young age with her younger sister, and then encountered robbers and was forced to separate from her sister, who was dependent on her for life. In this time of despair, she met Dokuroku, bringing her into the Sun and Moon Sect.
? If she were an ordinary weak woman, perhaps she would have been helpless after her parents abandoned her, and would have perished before long. But she is not, as the eldest daughter of her family, she was born with the character of perseverance and the sense of responsibility to guard the whole family. Dokuroku gave her the opportunity to be strong in a time of crisis. As a young girl who has suffered a major blow in her life, what can she do? When she was just establishing her outlook on life and values, she was instilled with the idea that women are inferior to men, so what else could she do but choose to be a man and be strong? Dokuroku said, only the strong can survive, the weak will only add to the trouble. In order to survive, in order to have the capital to survive to look for the lost little sister, she has no choice, or she took the initiative to rationally choose to do "really fierce".
When she was a child, she must have been a daughter whose parents were very relieved, a gentle and kind girl, a sister who loved her younger siblings, and who always put her family first and herself last. Originally her life could not have been more ordinary. But this change of events has deviated her entire life from the original track.
On the road of learning martial arts to start a career, she is very lucky. First of all, she had the talent of practicing martial arts. She could see the needles fired by Dokgoo Kurenai that no one else could see, and Dokgoo Kurenai had also identified that she was indeed a piece of good material for learning martial arts. Secondly, she was guided and coached by Dokgo Kurenai, the best teacher in the world in martial arts, and she also promised to pass on the whole mantle. But on the road of relationship, she is poor. When she was young, her parents hadn't had time to teach her how to love. After leaving her parents, Dokuroku, who had always wanted her to be a man, naturally told her even less, so the door to relationships was closed. In her world, only a thousand years of domination remained. In the long road of martial arts training and fighting for supremacy, she has indeed forgotten that she is a woman, and in her world there is only practicing the best martial arts, defeating Ren Weixing to avenge her master. Defeated Ren Weixing himself as a godfather, she had the opportunity to pretend to the name of the Qinglou to let herself occasionally let herself back to the body of a daughter.
In the long years of martial arts training and fighting, and in the midst of deceit, she learned to be patient, learned to camp, learned to power, learned to dominate others, only one thing has not been learned, that is, how to love and be loved. She has never been the master of others, she is accustomed to seeing the awe in the eyes of others, accustomed to seeing the obedience of others to him, and even also accustomed to seeing the so-called prestigious sects and factions of the so-called indiscriminate accusations and abuse of her, but not accustomed to others to be good to her.
? After Yu Niang used suicide to teach her the first lesson of emotion in her life, the door of emotion was opened after Linghu rushed up to protect her. The longer the door is closed, the more precious it is when it is opened. Originally thought that this life can only choose to do men, no other possibilities, the original heaven can not tolerate her loneliness finally gave her the opportunity again. Unfortunately, although she has no rivals in the career, but she is still a tender little girl in her feelings, because no one has ever taught her how to love, her identity, her status also restricts her behavior. By her own admission, she doesn't know why, but ever since she met him, she wanted to be close to him and became less and less like her.
? She wishfully thought that loving him meant helping him and being good to him. That's why in order to save the life of Linghu Chong, not hesitate to lose their own true qi, injured but also for him to kill snow wolves to take the gall; he was alone to think about the past, afraid of his loneliness, with fat chicken wine to see him; he fell out of love, afraid of his sadness, pretend girlfriend to cheer for him; he learns the Dokugu Nine Swords, she put down the dignity of the godfather to be his companion; someone insulted him, she will help him out; he is too injured to save him, in order to save him, in order to go to the Spirit Washu Temple in person, give up their freedom for him. It could be said that she had constraints for the first time in her life. Love made her shed her pride. Or love pulls her back to the life she originally deserved.
? Some may say that if there is no such thing as later, they will love each other for the rest of their lives and the whole drama will end in a happy ending. But there are no ifs in this world. They ended up going their separate ways, yin and yang. Some people say that their breakup stems from various misunderstandings and the deep-rooted concepts of good and evil in Linghu Chong's mind. But I think there is another reason for their breakup, which is that the Oriental girl used the wrong way of love. You know, Linghu Chong never said I love you, even the vague confession of embracing in the cave. This kind of Linghu Chong is very different from the Liu Liancheng who strongly showed his love in "The Princess of the World". I'm not sure if a man's confession should be so unclear and unintelligible. Thinking worse, maybe Linghu Chong doesn't love Miss Dongfang at all. Even after the farewell between the Oriental girl and him, he didn't admit it even once.
The Laughing Pride Wanderer once again verified the Benjamin Franklin effect, men really still do not like to charge for them regardless of the woman. Every infatuated woman can sacrifice for her beloved man, but very few men will do that for a woman; at best, they'll just drop a few tears holding their dying woman, and then turn around and be happy with another woman. That's true of Dollhouse, that's true of Fire Dance and Yellow Sands, and that's true of Laugh-In. It turns out that the best way to get people to like you is not to help them, but to let them help you. So the harder the Sect Leader tries to be nice to Linghu Chong, the less he appreciates it. It sounds unbelievable, but that's the way it is. Although women are always advertised as being very careful, women will always go out of their way for men, the more simple and kind they are, the more unabashedly nice they will be to you, and only smart women will put away their sharp edges and choose to play dumb and take advantage of men's protectiveness. Men are always being publicized generous, but in fact self-esteem is stronger than anyone else, can not allow women to rush in front. The reason why Linghu Chong abandoned Dongfang and chose Yingying is because Dongfang is really too strong, he can never control her. But in fact, he did not know, unabashedly Oriental girl is the best control. Oriental girl in front of him never to pressure people, on the contrary, all listen to foxchong, in front of foxchong birdie. But Linghu Chong just can't stand the godfather in front of everyone's high and mighty. With the determination of foxchong rejected her, she was afraid of Ying Ying died foxchong also want to die, rather choose to disappear to save foxchong this courage and love, enough to fix a few generations of foxchong on the blessing. Oriental girl to death do not understand, why I am so good to you, you can not see.
? The feelings of the godfather to lose a lot of money, not only did not exchange the long-awaited happy life, on the contrary, completely pushed the godfather into the abyss of destruction. The godfather career on the feelings of all suffered a serious injury. Gambling on everything in exchange for such an ending, she is not willing. Linghu Chong and Ren Yingying embrace the moment, do you see the godfather that a touch of helpless let a person's heartache smile. The ultimate despair of the Oriental girl ultimately chose to destroy themselves, to fulfill the other people's long life. I do not know years later, and Ren Yingying love each other, Linghu Chong mind still remember the year of the Oriental girl.
? Why is the godfather party so vociferous, why is the homoerotic rewriting the ending of so many. It shows that the character of the Oriental girl did cause the majority of the audience's ****ing. Watching TV, not only to see a hilarious, but also to see the inside of the doorway for people to deal with, and guide us in real life how to survive.
? There are many good qualities in the Oriental girl that we should learn from.
First of all, the Oriental girl emphasizes family love. After losing her little sister, she never gave up her search for her. After the final search, in order to fulfill the little sister's feelings, she would rather hide herself behind her little sister. This kind of affection is admirable. Until the end of nowhere to go, can think of the place is still their little sister, I hope Tian Boguang can take care of her, bring her a lifetime of happiness, more hope that she can be with Linghu Chong together.
Secondly, the Oriental girl does things decisively. Every time the Church inside the various affairs, are handled in a well-organized manner. Layout imprisonment of any arrangement of watertight. The Oriental girl is also very accurate, and has long seen that Yue Buqun is a hypocrite, a despicable villain.
Third, the Oriental girl is very kind, treat people sincerely. Even though she has imprisoned Ren Weixing, she still sends him food and water and treats his daughter well. The first is that the girl is very kind to the girl, even though she has imprisoned him, she still brings him food and water and treats his daughter well. What Miss Dongfang killed was not innocent people at all. Moreover, after Linghu Chong hurt her three times, she didn't even do anything to hurt Linghu Chong, and eventually made him whole.
There's still something about Oriental Girl that needs a mind shift.
? First of all, if you meet the object of your desire again in the future, don't give it up regardless like you did this time. No man appreciates you going through fire for them, they only expect you to be soft and weak in front of them. Be smart and don't honestly think that if you are good to others, they will be the same to you.
? Secondly, if you can't help but fight for the sake of Linghu Chong, then when he didn't respond, don't be so obsessive to find an answer, even if he said he loved you so what, that again empty but a few words, is it going to bring you solace? The result of your own or the same lonely one. If there is no response, it is decisive to let go of it. To find their own happiness, do not gamble all of yourself for a future that does not exist.
? Thirdly, don't be so great to fulfill someone else's heaven and earth. What you have done for the sake of Linghu Chong has far exceeded everything a lover can do, he did not want you, you should not pay attention to him, he is going to live and die with you what to do? Love is one thing, life is another, don't say goodbye to a good life because of the failure of love. You for the sake of other people's hearts and lungs, in the end, Linghu Chong simply will not remember your good. I think if you can't let Linghu Chong know the reason why, your sacrifice becomes meaningless. Only Ping Yi Finger shed tears for you and Feng Qing Yang sighed for you. Why are you so bitter?
But say so much, I know it is also a waste of time to say, I believe that these truths she understands, she is only too deep in love. The Buddha said, all beings are suffering. But Buddha also recognized that God has given everyone a chance to be happy. But the blame only lies in the fact that some people grabbed it, some didn't, and some grabbed it wrong.
Attached is a small poem of the same name
Other people's days are long
I like to drink wine with you in the wheat field
I admire you for your friend's two ribs and daggers in a duel to the death
How many foolish children in the world
I love you to the depths of my being
I've lost my pride
I've given up my freedom
I've only come here for the sake of traveling with you.
I've been practicing with you and singing for you
I only want to love your tenderness
It's a pity that I'm just a devil who kills without blinking an eye in your eyes
I couldn't change your glance even if I gave everything I had
I haven't seen enough of your smile
I want to listen to your voice for a long time
I don't regret everything that I've done for you
I have no regrets about the things that I have done for you.
I don't want to let go of your warm hands
Maybe people who love each other don't always stay together
Maybe the cold icy lake is my permanent friend
I want to see you happy
I envy that you can have someone else's forever