Time like a white horse, wait until the age of old age to live comfortably, but also to understand some of the truth.
First of all, as a child to support the elderly, as parents to raise their children, as a husband or wife, hand in hand, should also be respected.
In addition, we also need to pay attention to the following three things.
As the old saying goes, children have their own children's blessings, too much for the children's lifestyle, habits of life to intervene, may get the opposite result, but let the children feel bored.
When a person is young, they may seek the help of their parents to feed them, help them walk, or even help them sleep.
But after a person reaches puberty, due to physiological and psychological growth, the secondary development of people will be more and more eager to be free, want to get rid of parental restrictions, have their own perfect life, so if children.
After the marriage, there is still excessive intervention, which will only cause the children's resentment.
On the contrary, we can use the time to mix with the children's chores to enrich their spare time, such as dancing, feeding the birds and flowers, playing chess is possible.
The first half of life is full of small things, the second half of life we have to learn to look down, learn to let go.
Give your children enough time and space, and when they encounter big things they want to consult and ask for advice, they will naturally come back to find themselves.
The reason why people are called advanced animals is not only because they can have their own thoughts, but more importantly, they can learn to control what they do.
There is no denying that people have feelings and desires, but after living most of our lives, we should know how to control our own emotions, and restrain ourselves when appropriate.
The so-called not to the opposite sex around the idea of transgression is that, people to the middle age, the burden of carrying a family, as well as for the wife and husband of the responsibility of a person to learn to love you, or you love the people around you responsible for when there is a violation of ethical, legal and disciplinary emotions, learn to refrain.
The TV series "are quite good", in which Su Daqiang for the nanny around the idea of transgression, and ultimately also brought a series of trouble, almost leading to the tragic end of the family broke up, and ultimately only be able to let his daughter Su Mingyu to clean up the mess.
Therefore, after 60 years, we have to learn to maintain respect for the opposite sex around us, in a reasonable social environment, friendly relations and interaction.
In recent years, there have been many reports in the social news that the elderly have been cheated out of their retirement money because of various health care products, which in fact does reflect the lack of care for some of the elderly in society, who have been cheated for various reasons, but on the other hand, it also reflects that some of the elderly lack of guidance and methods of managing their personal belongings.
First of all, we should be able to establish a sense of fraud prevention, a lot of things in a person's life is dealing with money, but it is precisely because of the money to lose some of the ability to see the truth.
Secondly, we can manage our personal money through reasonable and effective financial channels, such as buying treasury bonds or bank deposits and so on.
Finally, in the use of their own money, learn and children around the people to discuss, seek the advice and suggestions of others.
Try to avoid the fear of disturbing their children, and carry all alone, everything to do with the amount of discussion, only in this way can reduce the number of elderly people were scammed.
People want to live a comfortable life, there should be a big pattern.
After 60 years of age, we should learn to look down on some things, not to pay attention to the small things in life, not to be involved in the children's housework.
Learn to restrain yourself and learn to respect others to be able to harvest more friendship and affection, and finally learn to think twice before acting, for their own money management should have a certain method, not to be able to randomly listen to others.
Only then can we live this life according to the way we want to live. The only way to do so is to live your life the way you want to live it.
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