Recently watched a mediation program:
"A man in his fifties because of extramarital affairs was known to his wife, husband and wife to produce contradictions up and down the family."
There is also not long ago caused the Internet buzz:
"59-year-old man and his lover in the room dating, the lover's husband suddenly came to knock on the door, the man panicked and chose to escape by jumping off the building, the result was accidentally killed."
It is said that fifty know the fate of the world, in the concept of many people, the man to the age of 50, a thousand sails, too much experience has long seen through the human nature, will not go to talk about love, more will not touch the woman outside of marriage.
But in reality, there are a lot of men in their fifties who are still obsessed with extramarital affairs.
How do these men think? Let's listen to the following three men's hearts.
1. Mr. Zheng, 59
I have been dating my lover for a year, and my wife doesn't even know it.
Since the birth of my youngest grandson, my wife has been preoccupied with my grandson and never cared about my feelings.
I don't know when I started, my wife and I are like two old acquaintances who have known each other for many years, without any desire for in-depth communication.
She brought her grandchildren every day, dancing, and chatting with her old sisters, and her time was very full.
And I spend the rest of my time on the Internet, in addition to going out for a walk.
On the Internet, I talked to a woman in her fifties.
I've been talking to a woman in her 50s, whose husband often goes out and doesn't come home, and whose children aren't with her, so she's lonely and can't sleep at night because she's alone in the house.
We talked for a long time, and then crossed the line and got entangled. We agreed not to destroy each other's families, but just to keep each other warm when we are lonely.
2. Mr. Wu, 55
In fact, I wanted to find a lover many years ago, but I didn't have the right one.
My wife and I had no feelings, and the two of us were introduced to each other when we were old enough to get married.
The wife is not cultured, and her character is also big, talking and doing things are all the wind and fire.
And I was considered a high school student, the bone is a more like a romantic person. My ideal wife should be intellectual, full of cultural flavor of the big girl.
So we have been married for decades and have not been able to rub out a little spark of love, but rather a lot of contradictions.
I think my wife is incomprehensible, we don't have **** the same language, a lot of things can't communicate with her, I've thought about divorce countless times, but for the sake of the children I've always endured to make do.
Now that my children are older, I'm used to getting along with my wife. But the deepest part of my heart still longs for a woman who knows and understands me, so that I can release my feelings to the fullest.
If there is a chance to meet such a woman, I think I will play an extramarital affair.
3. Mr. Gu, 58
After decades of good marriage, there is no more passion. As someone said: touching your wife's hand is like touching your right hand with your left hand.
And men in their 50s have no passion for their wives, but still have a desire for the flowers and grass outside. Especially men with free money, like me.
My wife is the kind of honest woman, she was not beautiful, plus now older, and will not dress up their own, looking at her yellow face, really can not bring up my interest. We have been sleeping in separate beds for years.
And my lover is not only young and beautiful, but also gentle and understanding, with her I feel like I'm back to the young time, the heart full of passion.
My wife knows that I have extramarital affairs, but she can not control me. In order to stop my philandering, she once also made a few times, she made a mess I simply do not go home. The first time I saw this scene she later also did not make a fuss, I turned a blind eye, she is now the requirements as long as I still care about the family on the line.
I naturally still can't let go of my own family, with the lover is just a play, passionate over the scattered, will not be stupid enough to break up the family for the sake of extramarital affairs.
Conclusion ： 50-year-old people obsessed with extramarital affairs, in fact, or the family responsibility is not enough, the wife is not deep enough feelings, so the face of temptation without resistance.
Many men have a lucky break, overestimating their ability to think they can control the whole situation, playing around with extramarital affairs and not exposed.
But look at how many people in the life of extramarital affairs, couples, the future is ruined; more how many people have extramarital affairs to get the family broke!
No matter how old, extramarital affairs are not love but robbery. The first thing you need to do is to get a good deal of money from the company.
Marriage is not easy, treat your partner well and stay away from extramarital affairs.
The best love in the world is the one you have with your partner!
What do you think about men in their 50s who are obsessed with extramarital affairs, whether it's love or robbery?