The paper is not as shallow as it should be, and it is important to know that this matter should be practiced. We as a student, can not be a huddle in the ivory tower, but should go deep into society, more involved in some social practice activities. So what did you learn from the social practice of helping the elderly in this old age home? The following is organized by me for you "to the elderly hospital to help the elderly social practice experience selected 4", only for reference, welcome to read.
Part I: the old people's home to help the elderly social practice experiencewhite hair, holding a cane, walking hobbling, these have become a symbol of the elderly; lonely, lonely, helpless also seems to be synonymous with the elderly. The elderly, who have traveled all the way through countless storms and snow, need care and love. In their old age, even if it is a faint smile, a cordial greeting, a sincere blessing enough to make them feel immense warmth and sweetness.
Because of this, this social practice we came to the xx city old people's home, to carry out our "with a true love, send a warm" xx students into the old people's home to help the widows and orphans activities. I hope that through our efforts to bring these elderly a happy.
Early in the morning, we made all the preparations, came to the old people's home. xx city old people's home is located in a beautiful environment of the town. Just arrived at the door of the home, we felt the enthusiasm of the elderly, perhaps they are too long lonely finally ushered in the "lively". We brought watermelon, medicine to the elderly, looking at their faces after many years of vicissitudes of life, touching the mother-in-law's thin and a little shaky hands, I feel a burst of heartache.
The first thing we did at the home was to help the grandparents clean their bedrooms. Put on a mask and we worked feverishly, division of labor, cleaning windows, sweeping the floor are not left behind. Although we were sweating, we didn't feel tired at all and were happy that we could finally do something for them with our own strength. Looking at their eyes full of gratitude, we felt that it was worthwhile even if we worked hard. We do a little bit of things for them, they warmly grateful for a while, I suddenly feel that this simple "give and take" feeling is very good, very good.
The second thing was to talk to the grandparents, from whom I learned about their pain and suffering. One of the eighty-year-old grandfather, he is a Red Army, he said: "We are young Hou life is very hard, whether to solve the biggest problem of food and clothing, sometimes can eat a sweet potato porridge has been very good, we also ate grass roots, bark, and even have to starve for a few ...... ". Grandpa recalled the bitter experience, while I could only listen, comfort and inspire. So much so that I wanted to feel the scene of that time with them. Later, Grandpa also said that the current stable social environment, good social security, and people's frequent visits make him very satisfied with his present life. Speaking of this, a happy smile appeared on Grandpa's face. Afterwards, Grandma also talked about the students of our generation and praised us greatly. While talking, we also presented songs for them. All in all, the songs and laughter of the old folks' home echoed for a long time.
The third thing is to give the grandparents to the meal, to help them to prepare the dishes, to bring the meal to their hands, looking at them eat a lot of expression, even we feel that the meal is very fragrant.
Later, we also cut with them in the gym, teach them to play tai chi, look at them want to learn seriously, but funny action, we all laugh together.
Time flew by, and the activity ended very quickly. The moment we waved our hands to leave, we were all a little reluctant to leave, but I am sure we will come back to see it again.
Through this personal experience of caring for widows and orphans, communicating with them from heart to heart, and listening to their heart-wrenching life stories, I was overwhelmed with emotion: I y sympathized with the old people for what they had encountered when they were living in that difficult time, and I felt very fortunate for us to be living in this stable and harmonious era. We are infinitely happy to be able to live in this era, we should cherish our present life and the people in front of us, and we should know how to respect our elders, sympathize with our parents and communicate with them more. On the other hand, although the old people have different life backgrounds and experience different storms, they have the same need - our care. "Old age, as well as the old man", caring for the elderly since ancient times is the traditional virtues of the Chinese nation, and we as a contemporary college students, a young people should carry forward the virtues of more communication with the elderly, in the last days of the old man's life, so that they can enjoy the warmth of the family-like, loved ones like love!
Article 2: The old people's home to help the elderly social practice experienceFriday, seemingly as ordinary as usual, but also because of the volunteer activities and appear to be this Friday is not so ordinary. Although I got up early in the morning, the cold wind, but the thought of going to the old people's home to give the elderly in the cold day to send warmth, the body can not help but gush out of the warm current.
stepped on the bus, feel close to the destination and a step, the heart can not help but leap up, in the cold winter can do such a warm thing, it is really pleasant ah! In less than an hour, we arrived at our destination, the home for the elderly, marking the official start of our activities today. After the social workers of the home talked to us about the relevant precautions, we went to the fifth floor as a group to carry out our work. When I arrived at the fifth floor, I felt a sense of tranquility, and I don't know why my heart suddenly became calm. Maybe it's because there are old people's place, always give people a kind of peaceful feeling.
The first thing that caught my eye was the two old people sitting quietly in their chairs, waiting for us to arrive. First of all, the first program is the red song singing, I am one of them. When the slogan "one, two, three" rang out, we all immediately put out the sound, and the song was then loud and clear. After "Love China", to "Sing for the Motherland", to "My Chinese Heart", one red song after another aroused the patriotic fervor of the elderly. The old people couldn't help but beat their hands along with us, and we could really see that they were as much involved in the lively atmosphere as we were. Perhaps the warmth of the atmosphere infected us, and we couldn't help but walk towards the old people as we sang the red song loudly. When the song ended, the in-laws gave us a loud applause. Then the next program was the singing of Hakka songs, at this time I walked behind the in-laws and accompanied them to enjoy the song. In the middle of the program, I saw an old lady singing along with the song, and I felt that old people are just like little children, as long as we are willing to give them care and love patiently, they will feel very happy and blessed. What they actually want is not material, they need more is our practical action care.
When it comes time to talk to my in-laws, I find that they need us to listen even more. I was talking to a lovely old lady. When I complimented her on her beautiful dress, the granny broke into a big smile. She told me that her daughter had given it to her many years ago and that she wore it every winter. At that moment, I suddenly realized that the old woman's smile was especially beautiful because it was a smile from her heart. That dress was filled with the love of the old lady's daughter for the old lady, and it was a kind of happy mother-daughter love. When the old lady talked about how she used to live in poor conditions when she was young and couldn't even read, I felt a little bit sad in my heart. But the old lady looked very open, she said that is the past, now life is very good, children have a happy family.
Especially when she talked about her grandson becoming a traffic cop after finishing college, the corners of her mouth couldn't help but curl up. Squatting in front of the granny, I was touched in an instant, and it was the most beautiful smile in the world. In fact, what the elderly need is not the material things that our children and grandchildren give once or twice in a while, what they need is the care that we often give in ordinary life. Even a greeting, a hug, a listening ear. At the end of the gift distribution, when my in-laws received the socks from us, they smiled genuinely, which was like the feeling of warm sunshine shining on them on a cold winter day. I knew they were really happy, and I felt that our trip today had not been in vain. The smiles of my in-laws were the final reward.
When the city life is getting busier and busier nowadays, and people's pace is getting faster and faster, shouldn't we in such a big environment slow down a bit to feel the warmth around us, to care for our family members, and to discover the beauty of life? A loving city can not be achieved by the efforts of some people alone, but requires everyone to contribute their own share of love. Let a little bit of love slowly cohesion, so that love filled our lives, so that we can find love everywhere.
Article 3: The old people's home to help the elderly social practice experienceDedication of time, reap the fullness; dedication of time, reap the value; dedication of love, reap the touching. Respect for the elderly and love for the young is a traditional virtue of our Chinese nation. It is a valuable spiritual wealth inherited from our forefathers. In our long history and profound traditional culture, we attach importance to human morality, family harmony is the essence of our cultural traditions, but also the Chinese nation's strong cohesion and affinity for the specific embodiment. Everyone has an old time, but respect for the old and love for the young is everyone's duty.
Early in the morning, all the officers of the Youth Volunteer Association of our college, under the leadership of the captain of the elderly team, gathered at the office of the Youth Association with love materials downstairs, and went to the "xx" home for the elderly in the xx district of xx city. Each of us will go through the process from child to youth, from youth to old age, through life and death, we are still in the youth stage, the future also has a long period of time, how to go on, I think, everyone should have a number in mind, perhaps when we finish our life journey, the rest, whether it is also want to spend their old age as the old people of the old people's home?
Into the home, the face of strangers to the elderly, at first I seemed very cautious, do not know what to talk to the elderly, but also afraid to talk about their sad things. But all of this was changed by a grandfather, in the process of conversation, the grandfather told me about his former life, in that old society, although the grandfather is an orphan, but society has not abandoned him, he also became an honorable **** production party members, the grandfather also told me about their daily life, one of the things that I think they are too poor, every day can only be in the small courtyard, the door is also locked. activities, the door is also locked. The dean did this to ensure their safety, but I feel that their old age is very miserable, every day living a "copier" type of life. I don't want the old people outside to accompany their grandchildren, and in their spare time they can go to the square to dance, play chess, and chat with other old people. But the old people in the home did not feel, and we talked to more of the former young things.
On the way back, the old grandfather followed us to the bus place, always reluctant to part. I have mixed feelings, the old people in their own work in the silent dedication of a lifetime, and now the children are not around, but still preserved an optimistic and strong mentality. In the life of the old, then as the younger generation, we should be able to help them, care about their old age.
I have learned a lot through this activity. For my parents, I told myself that they will be old one day, and I have to do my best to take good care of them, and keep them by my side, no matter how slow their actions become, no matter how difficult it is for them to think. Because I know, sheep have the grace of kneeling, crows have to feed the father, as young volunteers we should be more to care for them, they are not lonely, life is not so bleak, so that they can be more of an object that can be talked about.
Article 4: The old people's home to help the elderly social practice experienceIn the eyes of many people, the old people's home is the shelter of widows and orphans. And now, many of the children of groups of elderly people took the initiative to go into the old people's home. Some of them used to be teachers, engineers, cadres, and also art workers. Choose a home for the elderly, because their children are busy at work, home floors, no one to chat with their own; but also because here with their peers, *** with the same interests, similar concepts of life, so that they can feel more of the setting sun is infinitely good. At first, in front of some of the elderly people still seem very formal, but individual active personality outgoing students are very enthusiastic to drive everyone. Some of the elderly suffered from Alzheimer's disease, but the students patiently chatted with them, helped them organize their clothes, cleaned their furniture, listened to them talk about their past, and shared their campus life with them. They also performed a small program for the old people, which made these old people who live in loneliness smile happily once again.
Usually pampered, we come out of the campus to the society and into the elderly. Chatting with the elderly as friends, listening to the deeds of the elderly is so fascinated, more people feel high heart, actually some students took the initiative to run outside the kiosk to buy things for the elderly. When we came here, we had prepared some fruits, snacks and moon cakes. But it was not enough, those students used their own pocket money to buy food for the elderly. This scene is y imprinted in my heart.
Our group from the morning to 12 noon, walked part of the elderly room. Sympathy for the old people. When it was time for the elderly to eat, we followed the administrator responsible for the distribution of meals while sympathizing with and helping the elderly to eat. Some of the old people are very inconvenient to eat, must need to be fed on one side. At this time, we have long been free of the previous constraints students are scrambling to feed the elderly, although the action is clumsy. But once they saw the smiling faces of the elderly, they smiled happily. The first time I saw this, I felt like I was in a family.
1:00 pm, when we finished eating, usually this time the old people are out to walk and exercise. The home has a large yard with a lot of exercise equipment. There were quite a lot of old people walking and exercising, and when they saw us coming, they played some games with us. They played some small games with us.
Through chatting, we learned about the daily life of the elderly. Some of them can't stay at home, their children are busy at work, and some of them are sent here by their children. Some of them are not used to it just now, but they gradually get used to it after a long time.
The old people here are very happy, they have time to watch TV or play mahjong in the shade of the tree downstairs or in the room upstairs first, but also to do some simple exercise downstairs. Therefore, the elderly can be considered to be in good health in their twilight years here.
Through this chat with the elderly, we understand a lot, understand their past experience, understand their hard work, understand their children's expectations, and understand their hope for us in the elderly home of the 1st floor of the old people living in the majority of the more difficult to move. 2 floor of the old people have a considerable portion of the first year of living in the old people. We went up to the 2nd floor and found some old people chatting with their children, and some of them were playing chess.
We were greeted by an old woman who actually cried. It was very sad. We patiently chatted with her and listened to her say that she had given her retirement pension to her children, who sent her here regardless of her and seldom came to visit her. One of the students said to the granny that we are all your children. And to the grandmother to perform a program, the grandmother to break into tears to smile, we are reluctant to leave.
Each of us will go through the process from childhood to youth, from youth to old age, through life and death. We are still in the youth stage, the future also has a long way to go, how to go on, I think, everyone should have a number in mind. Perhaps when we finish our life journey, the rest, whether it will be like the old people in the old people's home as happy and happy to spend their old age?
On the wall of a home for the elderly, there is a passage that says: "Child! When you were very young, I spent a lot of time teaching you to eat slowly with spoons and chopsticks. I taught you to tie your shoes, to button your buttons, to slide down the slide, to get dressed, to comb your hair, to wring your nose. These little moments with you are so nostalgic to me. So, when I can't think of anything to say, please give me a little time, wait for me, let me think again, most probably I will forget even what I am going to say in the end. Kid! Have you forgotten the first doll song we practiced hundreds of times before we learned it? Do you remember how every day I had to rack my brain to answer questions that came out of nowhere? So, sympathize with me as I repeat and repeat the same old stories and hum the children's songs of my childhood. Let me continue to revel in these memories! And hopefully, you, too, will keep me company with your gossip! Child, now I often forget to button my buttons and tie my shoes. When I eat, I soil my clothes, and my hands keep shaking when I comb my hair. Don't rush me, but be a little more patient and gentle with me, for as long as I have you with me, a great deal of warmth springs to my heart. Child! Nowadays, I can't stand on my feet and I can't walk. So please hold my hand tightly and stay with me, slowly. Just like back then, I take you step by step.
The total **** of the old people's home has 2 floors, and there are rooms for the elderly on the first and second floors. Under the guidance of the staff we spread out to accompany the elderly to chat. The place is divided into many small suites, a small suite inside 3 elderly people live, a small living room has a TV. When we entered the room, we saw three grannies sitting and watching TV. After sitting down, the lack of experience, we have a little cold, just contact with our elderly a little out of the ordinary, we changed several topics, are to keep a question and answer form. Are you accustomed to living here? Yes, I'm used to it. Do you usually have any activities here? No, I don't. Does your family visit you often? Yes, they do. It was quite awkward, and the situation remained so for 3 or 4 minutes. Later, when we talked about family problems, one of the grannies had tears in her eyes. We think she remembered something unpleasant. Oops ...... felt as if things were screwed up by us. Several times we want her to say the grievances of the heart, so that her heart feel better, but the answer is basically nothing later probably learned is that a significant portion of them are not willing to come here away from their children to live here feel very lonely and helpless, so as not to provoke her painful memories of us, they are not willing to answer the question, we still do not want to will be left to chase the poor enemy, or say more wrong more ah.
After about an hour, we took the old man in a wheelchair to a shady place to concentrate. We perform some small programs for the elderly, sang a few songs, grateful heart, unity is strength, the East is red, and the original and modern version of the emperor's daughter flower it ...... shortcomings we are not fully prepared for the articulation between the program is not smooth enough, but the elderly are also quite cooperative and happy and we interact with them to play and also quite happy this is our feel We are glad to see that. After the songs, we also performed some dances and let some old people who like to sing come up to show their voices. Nearly 11 o'clock, we ended all the programs with the "grateful heart" chorus as the finale of the program.
Many days have passed since the practice, but every time I think of the faces of the elderly, I am always moved and miss. These people, who were once young and contributed their whole life, are getting old, and they really need more attention and love from us. I suddenly realized my own burden, we have grown up, shoulders have more responsibility.