Baby moms at home with children is a free meal? The new era of full-time baby moms should be how to deal with family relations?

Yesterday evening, while walking through the mall with my baby, I came across a young but stylishly dressed baby mama squatting at the front door and sobbing softly. The first time I saw this was when I was a young man, and it was a very good thing that I had a good time, because it was a very good thing that I had a very good time. And complaining that you have no clothes to wear, you say you, wear so beautiful to whom to see!" Not far away there is a fifty-year-old aunt, mouth also read words: "not just say you two sentences, but also throw face, buy such expensive clothes, you see the neighbor's daughter-in-law, work every day to earn money, only to wear dozens of dollars of clothing, which is the same as you, every day idle at home, with which penny is not my son earned ...". ". Seeing the onlookers more and more people, I really can not see past, let the baby handed a package of tissues to the treasure mother, and pulled her away from the scene.

I took the baby mama with me to a nearby dessert store, and after crying for a while more, she told me her story. BaoMa's name is JiaJia (a pseudonym), a rural girl from Jiangxi, 26 years old this year. After graduating from college, she came to Shenzhen to work alone and met her current husband, Xiaoshi, on a donkey trip. Jiajia is young and beautiful, and warm and generous, and soon attracted the attention of Xiaoshi, who began to pursue her. Xiaoshi is a business manager, can speak well, Jiajia quickly in his sweet words under the attack fell. When in love, Xiaoshi Jia Jia submissive, gentle and considerate Jia Jia once felt that this is what she wanted to marry the man of her dreams. The two have been in love for more than a year, and went into the marriage hall naturally.

After marriage, the two began to sweet. The two rented a room together, each working during the day, cooking and doing housework together at night, and occasionally going to participate in donkey activities during the holidays. The first time I saw this was when I had a child. After the baby was born, Jia Jia wanted Xiaoshi to ask his mom to come over to take care of the baby so she could continue to work and help share the burden at home. But Xiaoshi didn't agree, on the one hand, because her mother-in-law herself didn't want to, and bringing the baby affected her square dancing, on the other hand, Xiaoshi felt that her mom was too old and had no obligation to take care of the baby for them. In desperation, Jia Jia had to quit her current job and become a full-time baby mama.

Every day at six o'clock, Jia Jia will get up to cook for her husband, and then clean up the house, give the baby a bath, change diapers, breastfeeding, their own often busy in the morning meal can not eat. The first thing you need to do is to get your hands on some of the most popular products and services in the world, and then you'll be able to get your hands on some of the most popular ones. Then she starts to do the laundry, organizes the room, and carries the baby to buy the ingredients for dinner. In the evening, she starts organizing the ingredients and has to make dinner after Koishi gets off work. Often, it was a matter of holding the baby in one hand and stir-frying with the other. At night, the children have to get up several times to eat milk, change diapers several times, Jiajia thinking that Xiaoshi work is more tired, never let him help, are all alone to complete. When the baby is sick, she will insist on taking the child to the hospital by herself even if she is crying. In this way, day after day, Jiajia has not remembered how long did not sleep a good night, did not dress up their own. Her youthful beauty seemed to have been put on hold from the day she became a baby mama. What makes Jiajia most angry is that Xiaoshi comes home less and less often, and unintentionally dislikes Jiajia for being unkempt, which makes him lose face in front of his coworkers. The mother-in-law occasionally comes to the house is more than complaining, complaining that she does not work, not thrifty, always spend his son's money.

Jiajia said that today is the first time she bought her favorite clothes after giving birth to a baby, and the first time she put on exquisite makeup, wanting to give her husband a surprise. I didn't realize that my mother-in-law happened to come over today, and because of the clothes, it gradually evolved into the scene I saw.

@appleA'sHourlyBeing A baby mama at home with a baby is just a free meal? I am very confused as to why someone would develop such twisted values. If you do the math, you will find that the value of a baby mama is unmeasurable. How much is it worth to carry a baby in October? How much is the labor and delivery worth? How much is it worth for you to hire a nanny in a first-tier city every month? How much is it worth to lose your social life every day and be confined to the kitchen? And how much is it worth to work day and night and lose your youth? I don't think Xiao Shi can afford all this, even if his salary is high. The formation of a family between a man and a woman is essentially a cooperative relationship, with a different division of labor, just like a company's finance and business, and we can't say that finance is a job!


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All of our fellow men and women should be able to cherish the woman who is willing to be a full-time mom for you. You understand that it is not easy for her, and she is bound to respect your dedication. After all, the child is the two of you, there is a stable backyard, you can fight well.