Previously, I saw a video, very touching, Shanghai 73-year-old man Zhu Boming will get up early every day, buy fresh lilies, add some wild honey, and pick out the impurities, for the 100-year-old mother to do a bowl of fragrant sticky lily soup. Zhu Lao said, mother serving children is not easy, now he served her well, to give her the best.
The old man said in the video that this sentence is particularly shocking: "If the mother is there, the home is there. I can see her every day, and sometimes I'm quite happy when she tells me a few words." Yes, at this age, after experiencing the vicissitudes of time and seeing all the changes of the world, you still have your mother by your side, and this is such a happy thing!
This can not help but remind me of last year's a suddenly very hot little video, the video is a 107-year-old mother in Shangqiu, Henan Province, she went to a relative's banquet, while the 84-year-old daughter did not go that day because of leg pain, I did not expect the old mother came back with a piece of sugar, stuffed with the daughter.
Looking at the mother and daughter full of smiles, I think this is the best interpretation of happiness! No matter how old you are, as long as there is a mother, then you are still a tender child, you can have dependence, you can be spoiled.
I have been thinking, if one day, I also reached the age of seventy, hair white, teeth fall out, my mother can also accompany me, we sunbathe together, nagging the family, I can give her comb hair, her mouth broken chanted about my clumsiness, this is the most happy thing, right?
Mom is not Superman
When I was a kid, I thought that my mom was like a superman who could do anything, she would help me to "fight" the bugs that I was afraid of, she would always make my favorite fried squid with garlic shoots and scrambled eggs with tomatoes look very good, and she could ride a bike very well when I couldn't learn how to do it.
But then, when I grew up and talked to my mom, I learned from her that she was scared to see bugs, but she had to protect me; that she didn't know how to do any housework before, and that she practiced for a long time at home before she made me a delicious meal; that she practiced riding her bike every day and rode a long distance with fear and trepidation in order for me to go to school in the best kindergarten of the time.
Mom was once a little girl who didn't know how to do anything, was once a princess held in the palm of her parents' hands, and was once a little woman who needed to be pampered and taken care of, but now it's the saying, "A woman's a softy and a mother's a tough one," which I can relate to even more after I've given birth to a child and become a mother.
Because I have become a mother, no matter how scared I am, how afraid I am, how terrified I am, I have to be strong, just because, I have to protect my child.
Originally, the mother has been old
When I was a teenager, I liked to follow Jay Chou and sing: "Listen to your mom, don't let her get hurt, and I want to grow up fast in order to protect her ......" At that time, I would really think like this, let me grow up fast, now I am always protected by my mom; when I grow up, I will be able to protect her. Now really grown up, but began to regret, that time why want to grow up quickly like this?
In the past, I always thought that it was no big deal, my parents were still very healthy, their eyes and hands were very sharp, and they were still very young. I'm still young and haven't had enough fun, so I can take things a little slower; it's okay to get married, I'll always go back; I've been doing nothing but making my parents proud my whole life, so I'm just going to live my own little life.
These "I thought" were shattered when I finally met my mother the other day. I found that she needs to wear glasses to look at the phone, dancing for a few hours, will come back to be tired to go to bed early, more gray hair on the head, the whole person looks much older, and before the hospital because of high blood sugar, she did not even mention a word to me.
I just suddenly realized that, originally, my mother has begun to get old, and I married after graduating from college, and have not made any return, I even married far away, even she was sick and hospitalized did not know. In a flash, guilt, sadness, grief, and self-reproach were mixed.
I want to say, time na, you slow down a little bit, so that the white hair on the temples of the mother white a little slower, so that the wrinkles in the corners of her eyes climbed also slow some, so that she accompanied me again for a long time, and then longer ...... can time is still in accordance with their own pace head also do not return to walk, do not listen to anyone's persuasion and begging.
Time ah, slow down a bit!
In "Doraemon", there is such a touching moment: Nobita and Doraemon could not persuade their drunken father, so they used a time machine to go back in time and brought back their grandmother, who had already passed away, so that she could teach their father a good lesson, but they did not realize that their father, who usually looked like he was not smiling, cried out in pain to his grandmother, just like a child.
"Adults can be really poor ah ...... because, there is no longer a bigger 'adult' than them, there is no one who can be embraced in the arms of pampering or scolding them."
Lao She wrote in "My Mother": "People, live to eighty or ninety years old, there is a mother, it can be more or less still a little childish. Lost mother will be like a flower inserted in a bottle, although there is still color and fragrance, but lost the root. Those who have a mother are stable in their hearts."
When a mother is here, there is still a place for life to come; when a mother is gone, there is only a way back. Adults do have a lot of the world is not as good as, a lot of body can not help, but as long as there is a mother in, change can be pampered, can be capricious, can make themselves less powerful, can rest assured that there is a person to rely on. The mother has gone, you can only let everything themselves to fight hard.
I hope that we can cherish the moment, cherish and mother next together every day, so that every day can be Mother's Day. As Zhu Lao said in the beginning, if the mother is there, the home is there, even if you are nagged a few times, so what's the harm?