Maybe everyone has had this confusion, when you grow older, you will find that the rules of this society can not let you go to be true to yourself. It is in the world of feelings, you can not come to half of the true nature, because in the battlefield of feelings, the need for reserve, the need for calculation, who first initiative who first serious, who will lose. Before you start, you are out of the game. Men and women, however, like this game, do not care to play by the rules of the cards are doomed to lose a lot.
So, tonight, it hurts to see such a true nature of gold and jade.
"Secret passage? The secret passage is on me."
When Jin Xiangyu face with spring color, lightly biting lips to say such a fatal temptation words, Zhou Huai'an's brain is estimated to have run through 10,000 beasts, the heart is bitter and incomparable, which has time to flirt with you, I want to escape the secret passage.
But Zhou Huai'an still have to patiently perfume her, accompanied by her eyebrows.
He did not dare to offend this aunt, more than a dozen mouths of people's lives are on her, the storm of the Dragon Gate Mountain is coming, above the vast desert, the enemy is right in front of us, only this black shopkeeper holds the secret passage to get out of the pass, if you don't leave today, it will be too late.
In order to save people, he only chose to enter the cave with her, leaving behind his partner Qiu Moyan, who is in love with him. At the moment, he is suffering in the beautiful cave, but she is in the enemy of the sword in the wine into the sadness.
Jin Xieyu is the master of seeing everything. She knows that this man has no interest in himself, into the cave is also just a naked transaction, naked blackmail, "send you out of the pass get one hundred two, send you on the ghost gate get four hundred two ...... you want me to gold and jade how to do ah?"
He has his eye on the secret passage that she has painstakingly operated in the desert for many years. However, she looked at him, always try.
The first day of the meeting, is wrapped in a flag cloth on the roof to sing a colorful song - "August 15 temple door open, all kinds of candles set up. Red candles red, white candles white, little sister me a handful of clutches do not come" - the gold and jade was impressed by this suave and elegant man, "I am on the Dragon Inn", her teasing and seduction will always hit the nail on the head, just like the This deadly desert, although know the danger, but still some people prefer to walk in.
Even if this man is an exception, do not even take the right look at their own, she also believes that there is no man she can not handle, "his eyes are not looking at, the heart can be looked at a number of eyes it."
In the face of Zhou Huai'an's after-the-fact repayment, she sneered, this kind of verbal check she never believed, she opened a store, do people, pay attention to is profitable, no business from can not do, she has no concept of family and country, more indifferent to the difference between the good and the evil, she a black store, the concern is always their own interests.
She wants a man, but also must first enter the cave before talking about the deal. She frivolously took away the flute that Qiu Mo Yan gave to Zhou Huai'an, "This will be a bride price."
Zhou Huai'an is like Guo Jing in Jin Yong's writing, "The great man of chivalry is for the country and the people", he is willing to risk his life to save the loyal and virtuous after, Qiu Mo Yan is the same, is his like-minded partner, chivalrous, loyal and righteous. He and Jin Xieyu are two completely different types of people, he will not love her, just impressed by this wild vitality. Desert wind and sand annihilated all the delicate flowers, only radish flowers bloom in the hands of the boss's wife, under the candlelight, but also a different kind of beauty, just like the person of gold and jade. Enchanting, charming, but spicy heart.
The melee began, disrupting all of Jin Xieyu's plans, and she was swept up in this war that she had been trying her best to avoid getting involved in. She chose to side with Zhou Huai'an, and risked her life to pick up Qiu Mo Yan's flute, but still said with pride, "I don't want what others give me."
Her choice has nothing to do with justice, it's just whoever messes with me I'll make it unpleasant for them. She accompanied Zhou Huai'an to the end of the death struggle, but also by no means was emotionalized, sacrificed for the love of the bitter woman, she just want to live, she just do not allow the man they love to die in front of their own just.
Such a woman, unlike those we have seen in traditional culture, the old-fashioned women are never short of legend, just their deep love always let them become thin. In front of the man who does not love them, they or lonesome life, or die a miserable death, or become resentful. Jinxiangyu is not, she lived a spirited life, in the barren desert, in all kinds of men around, but no man has really got her heart. She gave her heart to a man who did not love her, and in the face of his lack of love, still strong.
Give her a drop of love and she thrives, take away the drop and she can't die.
Qiu Mo Yan because his beloved man and others into the cave, and pouring wine and sorrow, leaving a line of tears, if replaced by gold and jade, must be the old lady does not care about you and who is good, as long as it can be exchanged for what they want on the line.
The woman on the right path, the woman who is bound by culture and tradition, is never as good as this more than wild roses. She never cares about right and wrong, only to see if she needs and wants.
What I am willing to, is right. "Auntie me this person na, willing to be a hundred into ...... I'm not willing to ah, a hundred knives on my neck I do not."
The movie "New Dragon Inn" in Maggie Cheung will be a I do what I want to do alternative women Jin Xieyu molded vividly. This role has the shadow of Maggie Cheung herself, spunky and flamboyant, like no one else.
Ning wrote about Tong Xiangyu in Wulin Outreach, and he admits that the character is a reference to Jinxiangyu. Tong Xiangyu is also an eight-sided woman, only compared with Jinlangyu, more worldly, more down-to-earth. Like Jinxiangyu, Tong Xiangyu's life all the major choices are loyal to themselves and do, from refusing to yield to anyone's arrangements.
Tong Xiangyu is the shadow of Jinlianyu in the world, and Jinlianyu is the embodiment of Tong Xiangyu in the ideal kingdom.
Now we mention women's training, always some clichés, what to read, to travel, soul and body, there is always one on the road and so on. In fact, this is not the key to all, I have seen a lot of knowledge and cultivation, traveled all over China, as always, the personality is not independent of the woman, but also have seen the book only to see fashion magazines, travel only drill shopping malls so-called superficial women, as a strong heart.
Some women, the higher the level of education, the more fearful, afraid of not marrying out, afraid of men do not like their own this, constantly catering to the tastes of society, succumbed to the pressure of the world, lost all the true nature.
Do people really need to know astronomy and geography is the ultimate perfect state? No, even if you don't want to read books, don't know the meaning of life, as long as you can be loyal to yourself, adhere to their own beliefs of survival, live painfully, live lively, willing to gamble and accept defeat, can afford to let go, all can reach the highest state of life.
When I was a kid, I used to say, "I'm willing, I'm willing, I'm willing, I'm willing." At that time, it was purely rogue, but now I realize that the three words "I am willing to" are the most difficult and hard to do, and "thousands of gold can't buy me willing to" is an infinitely strong attitude towards life.
Once, someone asked me whether to choose their favorite or like their own people, I will give her this sentence, "girl, a thousand gold can not buy you willing."