Extend a little, who can * * * have money? I have a bold assumption that "wealth" is a value, and this value is personal quality/wealth. Give a new concept to "personal quality". Individuals are related to the responsibilities and feelings of another person, and "wealth level" refers to the social and economic situation of individuals.
This means that the higher the personal quality and the lower the level of wealth, the higher the possibility that this person and another person have money.
No one wants to suffer. People's psychology of seeking advantages and avoiding disadvantages makes them have only one idea when they are in trouble: "getting out of trouble." When two people (husband and wife, friends, partners, etc.). ) are all in the same predicament, and they have the same goal: we will get out of the predicament together.
Moreover, the idea of achieving this goal is too strong. Once people pay attention, they will automatically block out other things around them, forming a stiff feeling, and they will not care too much about the small frictions and contradictions between them.
In view of what you said. On the surface, the two seem to have deepened their mutual understanding and United. In fact, everyone is selfish. The other person understands you only because you have the same goal, and he thinks that your existence can help him accomplish this goal efficiently. At the same time, it is the most important thing at present. He has no time to think about other messy things or find the other person's minor faults. In this way, the two spent a period of time in a harmonious and enterprising atmosphere.
Once the goal is achieved (for example, the career is on the right track, the income is good, and the husband and wife have reached their desired standard of living), people will become relaxed and lazy, and begin to review the hard course of starting their own business, exaggerate their personal efforts, and intentionally or unintentionally ignore that the assistance and luck of others at critical moments are sometimes the decisive factors for success or failure. After reviewing their hardships, many people will have an impulse to reward themselves, such as wanting to be the sole person in charge of this enterprise after its success, wanting to get more shares, or buying a car or a house for a holiday to pick up girls, and so on. Once this idea is put into practice, problems will follow. .....
People are different, some can * * adversity but can't be with wealth, some can * * * adversity, and some can be with wealth * * * adversity, which depends on personality, ability to resist temptation, and the height that individuals want to reach.
I hope all of you can be the kind of reliable and trustworthy people, but also know that not all of you are such people.