There are many feelings in revisiting "Parents' Love".
Let's talk about Mr. Ge this time. She doesn't have many scenes, but she is very impressive and moving.
In a specific era, as a fisherman's daughter, Ms. Ge's family background was not good, which laid the groundwork for her ill-fated life.
In "Parents' Love", except for the heroine An Jie, all the women who were born in poverty have a bad life, and even can be said to be miserable. For example, An Xin, who was exiled to the island with her husband Ouyang Yi, and Antai's wife, who suffered from supercilious eyes, and so on.
Teacher Ge's life is particularly bad. She is gentle and sincere, and has a strong pursuit of a better life. Because of the times, she had to pick up shit and miss her sweetheart Mrding. Finally, she had no choice but to marry Wang Zhenbiao, deputy political commissar of the second marriage. ...
It was Wang Zhenbiao who broke up Mr. Ge's marriage. Now Wang Zhenbiao, who just died, in turn married Mr. Ge, which shows that Wang Zhenbiao is not decent.
However, years make people old, and Miss Ge, an old girl, couldn't bear it any longer, so she had to follow Wang Zhenbiao and reluctantly accept her fate.
Does Mr. Ge really love Wang Zhenbiao?
Not love, maybe a little annoying, but she persuaded herself to try to accept the reality.
Then, why did Mr. Ge choose to marry Wang Zhenbiao, who got married for the second time, just because he was old and had to make do? When she was having coffee with Angie, she quietly told a secret story of two years.
After deciding to marry Wang Zhenbiao, Mr. Ge can finally have coffee in Anjie's yard with peace of mind.
Teacher Ge sincerely said with emotion, "It feels good to drink coffee! You taught me to drink coffee for the first time In this yard, there is also such a small bunch of flowers, which is also this set of cups. "
In this regard, An Jie said: "The past is like smoke and vivid. Zhang Guiying's voice and smile are still in front of my eyes. If this person says no, it's gone. What's more, you have attended her class. "
Teacher Ge smiled and said slowly, "Who said no? I was so scared of her. The first time I had coffee with you, I was scared.
What's the taste of coffee? I can't taste it at all. When I got home, I lay on the kang at night and thought, what's the taste of this coffee? The more I think about it, the more I can't remember it. Finally, I hate licking my hair. "
When drinking coffee for the first time, Miss Ge was afraid of everyone, because she felt inferior and was afraid that others would hurt herself, just like a frightened animal.
Although the marriage between Teacher Ge and Deputy Political Commissar Wang is not suitable, Teacher Ge knows that if she marries this man, her life will not be too bad.
An Jie told Mr. Ge that Mr. Ge had gone through a lot of hardships to come over. Teacher Ge responded clearly: "If Deputy Political Commissar Wang is as good as Commander Jiang, then I will be half blessed in my last life, and I will suffer."
It is true that Teacher Ge married Wang Zhenbiao, not because of love, because love is a luxury and she can't afford it.
Teacher Ge knows his own situation and Wang Zhenbiao's character. She married Wang Zhenbiao, but she married a stable and leisurely lifestyle.
Many years later, Anjie and Mr. Ge finally reached the age of square dance.
This time, Ms. Xia Mei invited Angie to have coffee in her yard. Suddenly, it seems to remind people of the leisurely time of drinking coffee on the island.
Ge, an old teacher, said to An Jie, "When I first smelled the fragrance of coffee, I was thinking: What day is this? This is the life of a fairy. When can I live like this? "
An Jie responded: "Aren't you alive?"
Teacher Ge immediately said, "Yes, it's a little late, but after all, I'm satisfied. I tell you, when I was young, I had a goal. When can I live a life like Teacher An's, even if it is only for one day, I will live a valuable life. "
Angie said inexplicably, "My life is so good that you are so envious."
Teacher Ge sighed and said, "You don't know if you are lucky. Neither of us was born good. How did you spend your life, and how did I spend my life? " ? People are more angry than people! "
After Mr. Ge married Wang Zhenbiao, he became a stepmother, took care of divorced children, and lived in harmony and peace in his later years.
In my opinion, Mr. Ge has no regrets about marrying Wang Zhenbiao, because she has lived the life she wants. Although not perfect, she came late, but she was very satisfied.
Perhaps, in Miss Ge's heart, what she loves most is that she wants to live happily together. She also dreamed of getting married because of love.
Unfortunately, that's how fate played tricks on her. After missing Mrding, she waited a lot and finally gave in to Wang Zhenbiao and life.
When Teacher Ge said she was satisfied, my nose was really sore. At present, the woman in this evil business is satisfied as long as life gives her a candy and a little sweetness, which shows how bitter she is inside.
Everyone has his own destiny, and who can manage too much, so many people should do their best and then bow their heads and live.
As Wang Xiaobo once said in the Golden Age, "I was 2 1 year old that day. In the golden age of my life, I had many extravagant hopes. I want to love, I want to eat, and I want to instantly become a half-bright and half-dark cloud in the sky. Later, I learned that life is a process of being hammered slowly. People get older day by day and expect to disappear day by day. "
People will grow old day by day, accept a life of slow tempering, and expect to gradually disappear and become more rational and sober.
And the teacher Ge of "Parents' Love" is hammered slowly day by day, and then at the last moment when the charm of a semi-old woman still exists, she chose Wang Zhenbiao because she wanted to live like Anjie, even if it was only for one day.
Teacher Ge compromised, because she lived the life she wanted, which is also a kind of luck and deserves congratulations.
There are many forms of marriage, such as Mr. Ge's marriage, and each has his own needs. It may not be happiness, but it's not bad.
Recognizing yourself, knowing what kind of life you want to live, what kind of life you can live, and making choices bravely seem to be a compromise and concession, but it is actually a kind of progress.
Teacher Ge, who is sober in the world, deserves admiration.
Finally: I wish all lovers will be well.
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