Independence and freedom, sometimes lonely
The improvement of living standards, people have certain requirements for marriage, not will be is today's young people's attitude towards marriage. Today people have higher and higher requirements for the quality of their love life, so the requirements for the marriage object are also higher and higher. More and more people are choosing not to settle for anything, which creates more and more leftover men and women. It's not a big deal to be left behind, because people can have their own choices, and choosing to be single is as well. Whether it's voluntary or involuntary, left or left behind, and what's left at the end of the day, there's no escaping some realities. There are benefits to being left, but it's more of a helplessness.
"Leftover men and women" means that they do not have to bear the responsibility of a family, the economic distribution is more free, and the time to accompany their parents will also be correspondingly abundant. The economy is more generous and life is more free. The rest means less responsibility and fewer constraints, so you can spend as much money as you want on your own, and as much time as you want on your own. Marriage is the union of two families, so accepting a marriage is also accepting a bunch of responsibilities. When you get married, you not only have to think about your significant other, but also your parents, and even more so, your children. In addition, nowadays, many people are only children, after marriage, two young people have to support four elderly people, but also to raise the children, life is a heavy load to carry forward. If the family is average, the income is not high, then all the expenses can pressure people out of breath. But the leftover men and women are all in one piece, at most, only need to consider their own parents, the pressure is relatively not so great. You don't have to bring up children, you can go wherever you want to play, free and easy. At the same time, there are not so many expenses, can make themselves to maintain a high quality of life. Loneliness and helplessness forces one to be more independent.