My mother is not anything different from the norm, but what gives me the most influence is that her ordinary heart maps out the tolerance, understanding, openness and that wordless love. From the time I just understood, she often said to me: "Mom wants you to be happy all your life, learning how to survive is not the whole of life, I want you to learn to enjoy life." Although I didn't quite understand what my mom meant at the time, now, I have realized that she has been working hard for this. From the time I was very young, my mom was deliberately cultivating my reading habit. From the beginning when she read and I listened to her, to the present when I tell her what I have learned from reading, I have experienced a sense of accomplishment and pride from it. Therefore, learning is happy for me. My mom never interfered with my hobbies, and I was naturally happy to learn the hobbies I chose for myself. She also chose sports for me that I am not good at to sharpen my will, so that I have the courage to face setbacks and failures. The most surprising thing to me is that my mom actually let me learn Latin dance, at first I felt very depressed. But now I understand what it means to enjoy life. The moment I stand on the stage like a star, I want to say to my mom, "Mom, thank you for giving me a stage to show myself." Many parents think that their children are "close to the red, close to the black", so they do not allow their children to socialize with students with poor grades, but my mother does not agree with this point of view. She thinks that since those who are close to the "ink" will be black, why can't we let others close to the "Zhu" be red? She was very much in favor of my socializing with the "problem" kids in my class and greatly appreciated the help and encouragement I gave them. When I was in fourth grade, there was a particularly naughty student in our class who took me as his only friend and told me what was in his heart, and with my sincere help and encouragement, he made a lot of progress, which was very gratifying to me. \ Mom always said that learning is one's own business, and each of us is responsible for what we do. Therefore, she is concerned about my learning process and does not care about test scores. When I do well, my mom doesn't reward me easily. When I do poorly, she encourages me and helps me analyze the reasons. When I am frustrated by failure, she will gently touch my head and say: "Children, once or twice a failure does not mean eternal failure. Mom believes that tomorrow you will be better than today." Her words like a ray of warm sunshine, melted my heart of despair, so that I can use a normal mind to face any setbacks.
Many of my classmates like to come to my house as guests, and their feelings are summarized in one sentence - "Your mother is so warm!" As they say, she is just as welcoming to any of her classmates, regardless of their grades or family background. Everything she did made me feel that my friend enjoyed the same treatment as her friends. My mom's words and actions educated me and taught me tolerance, understanding, breadth, and consideration for others.
In my life, my mother has always been the closest and most loving person beside me, hush and warm, know cold and hot. She did for me is too much, but she never asked for any return, this is a kind of how broad how selfless love ah! It is this love that has given me too many things that I can not forget.
Mom is like a faithful navigator, for my life boat to determine the correct direction. At the same time, she let me endure heavy rain and storms, refining my will, so that I can soar freely in the vast ocean. Mom's love is like a mountain, like the sea. There are thousands of mountains in the world, but not as many as her love for me.
If I have learned a little care and gratitude, a little self-confidence and perseverance in dealing with people, I have to thank the person who has the greatest influence on me in life - my mother