What is the experience of having a mother-in-law who has a very low emotional intelligence and is extremely selfish and strong?

The strong type of mother-in-law has a strong desire to manipulate, always want to manipulate the size of the home affairs, everything to do, from small things to small things, to intervene in the son and daughter-in-law's husband and wife relationship. And always love to the elders as their own, her words is the holy decree, is the order, always want to let the daughter-in-law everywhere are obedient to her. Mother-in-law and daughter-in-law to get along, in fact, is also a necessary course of marriage, with good, not only family harmony, but also directly affect the degree of intimacy of husband and wife.