Enlightenment from practicing dance with my daughter

Since I signed up for dance training in September last year, I have tried to take a dance class every weekend except for business trips. As the youngest child in the class, I was relieved that my daughter would look into the glass window from time to time at first. I have been standing by the window 1 half an hour, taking notes (videos or notes) with my heart. Because he is young (less than 4 years old), his attention is not as good as that of other children (5.5-6.5 years old), and sometimes he is absent-minded in class, so it is inevitable to be named. But everything has a bright side. Babies are the most popular in the class, and other children of the same age and even parents are secretly competing. Shown in the intermittent interaction of sparring: everyone is willing to talk to me, but there is no communication between the top parents; It is also reflected in the punching of homework: there is a "default" "rule" for the punching order of classes, which always follows the order of A students, B students and C students. I am also happy to punch in at the end, just to show that the children are working hard and not falling behind.

Recently, affected by the epidemic, offline training was suspended and teachers changed to online guidance. The volume in the parents' group is even louder. I simply don't punch cards in large groups and send homework videos directly to the teacher. The teacher patiently guides the essentials of the action, not attaching more pleasantries to the big group, but pointing directly at the action itself, and at the same time omitting to watch the "infighting" in the big group, which is enjoyable. The process of guiding children to practice by myself has also made me realize the true meaning of the old saying: "The master leads the practice in the individual". There is not much difference between children in ordinary classes, but once classes are suspended, what they practice is mostly the self-discipline of children (in fact, it is mainly the self-discipline of parents). My baby entered this class at the latest, the youngest and the shortest time to practice basic skills. The teacher once mobilized us to go to another junior class to practice basic skills, but I won the observation buffer period through communication, and then suspended classes 1 month because of the epidemic.

This month, my baby and I are practicing the basic skills and two dances of the Protestant Level 1 exam every day: my little hand+watermelon. Every day after work, I will set aside 30 minutes for dancing after the self-study of other courses. And it is review+preview. Thanks to the "Universal Internet", although I am not a dance major, I can find demonstration videos of the senior high school entrance examination dance everywhere on the Internet. I first learned how to dance, and then taught my children a full set of dance moves by hand (when practicing, there will always be time to squeeze, such as taking a lunch break without rest, for example, reviewing in my head when driving to and from work at a red light), and then reviewing according to the teacher's decomposition moves, so my concept of "starting everything early will increase my confidence" was realized again. A month's suspension of classes for self-study made Bao Bei rise rapidly among his classmates, and the teacher was moved by Bao Bei's efforts to maintain his current class status. Through sparring, I also gained great benefits. At the age of no doubt, I easily hit the horizontal hip, almost tied, and my physical coordination has been greatly improved.

I am a rational mother, knowing that my daughter is "not a professional dancer's material" and never thought of dancing as the protagonist of her child's life. The reason why I make such great efforts is because I am a person who tries my best in everything; Secondly, I want my baby to realize that "human potential is infinite, and efforts can exceed the limit". Moreover, dance training is an important way for girls to improve their temperament and cultivate their figure. I am not crazy, narcissistic or Buddhist, but I am rationally guiding my children to do every little thing in life. Only by taking every little thing seriously can we achieve great things.

Dance self-study once again proves the importance of family education. The child is his own, and all outside help should be appreciated, but only he will pay 120% attention and sincerity to the child, and only he knows the child best and knows the most smooth way to communicate with her. Baby, I hope that when you grow up, you can see the dribs and drabs of feelings left by your mother in today's world and understand her strict and deeper intentions for you: don't limit yourself to one thing in front of you, try to explore the hidden laws behind the incident and apply them to the subsequent chain of events, and the accumulation of amplification effects will definitely help you bloom a beautiful life.