Rural neighbors most people diaphragm but can not laugh and cry thing is what?

I think the rural neighbors most people diaphragm but also crying and laughing things is no family children to take their own children, and then come out to compare with other people's children, I think it is the rural areas will often be some people do some things, those big mothers will often take their own children out to compare with other people, and then praised their own children have how good, either to praise the other men and women in the end how how how good! excellent, but a kind of problem that has been in the countryside for many years.